ok well i have a boyfriend and he lives in mexico and i live in the US i go to mexico during school breaks we talk all the time on messenger and sometimes on the phone and he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him what should i do?
2007-02-26 15:25:43 · 13 answers · asked by lopez_oneyda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm...that's a hard one!!! If I were you I would go see him and hang out with him for a bit and just see where the evening goes. If it does turn out that you two are headed for sex, then determine your feelings of whether or not you want to have sex and tell him so. If you don't and he's okay woth it, then you'll know that he really is a nice guy, he will understand and you will know that you have a good boyfriend. Besides, there are other things you can do besides sex!!
2007-02-26 15:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by saxplayingsurfchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u're prepared for that. If u really want to, u wouldnt ask anyone for decide something that so personal. Just tell him that u not ready now. If he really love u, then he will accept that. If he force u by saying he will leave u or by doubting ur love, then he really really not the right man for u.
Just some thougth, long relationship often dont held long. Distance can causes so many problem. Dont do it at least both of u have a strong commitment for ur relationship, and of course love.
2007-02-26 15:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
well in my view, if u guys don't live in the same country, and your the one always going there, and he never goes to you. and if u guys mainly talk over the phone. and if u aren't over the age of 22, u should break up with him. it sounds like ur the one making all the efforts. but if u odn't think that way, then wait until ur married. u can pop the question. that way, u'll find out if he's really trying to comitt, or just trying to have sex. and if he says yes, then u'll be on into more hapiness. hope everything works out! :D
2007-02-26 15:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should ask him if he wants to marry you...this way you will know if he is serious about your relationship or just working you up to the grand finale...do you know how many men dump their girls once they get a piece of **** from them? You should seriously give this serious consideration before you break down your guard...is he going to be there for you and the baby? just something to think about
2007-02-26 15:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know for a fact that you are ready to have sex, then..........do what you do. But if you are not ready, then tell him so. And if he's a good boyfriend, he'll respect that.
2007-02-26 15:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by MJ2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer would be don't, since you had to ask strangers here about what you should do...if you can't make the decision for yourself, don't let anyone make it for you!
2007-02-26 15:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by wyldefyre1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask yourself if you are willing to have sex with him, if you love him, and if you do will you regret the decision?
2007-02-26 15:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haven't you ever seen all those teen drama movies? long distance relationships always end in tears and bullets. break it off gently. stop calling. start acting distant. all that.
2007-02-26 15:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by that boi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to have sex with him?? Once you answer that questions then you should know what you want to do.....
2007-02-26 15:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it, lots of Mexicans only want sex and than dump you.
2007-02-26 15:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋