So I've been "talking" with this girl for a couple of weeks now. At first things heated up pretty quickly, we'd go over to her place and drink wine and get close, etc. She was slow to kiss me at first, but then we started to make out and eventually things moved to her bed after a few nights. The kissing and such got a little more heated and such until one night she thought I asked her to do a little more and all the sudden things pretty much froze. Now we talk and I've asked her about it and she says she'd just pretty confused, doesn't know how things went so fast, that she didn't want a serious boyfriend. But after a few days off, we're back to talking (but obviously not going back to anything more serious anytime soon). Cleary she was attracted to me - she even told me so. So what's up? Does she just wanna be friends now and is not attracted to me? That's not what I want. How do I interpret all this, without pushing too hard for some straight answer she might not have? TY
2007-02-26 15:20:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many girls tend to back away a little (or a lot) when they feel like they've gotten too close in too short a time. Especially in situations where even a little alcohol is involved. She's attracted to you, but may want to take time to build up the relationship. Take things a bit more slowly, get to know eachother. It will be better for both or you in the long run.
2007-02-26 15:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kaminari_Koori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's still attracted to you, but she wants to take things slow and get to know you personally first before she engages in sex with you. Take it slow, it's a good idea to get to know one another first anyway. She's scared, and confused, maybe even a virgin. Respect her wishes. Talk openly with her.
2007-02-26 23:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a women wants to fulfill her needs first just to see what she is investing in. Dont take it in a negative way, just let her get over her embarrasment of being forward toward you, she come back around.
2007-02-26 23:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by B. Gregory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the chemistry is there, you can not stop it. If the chemistry is not there, you get these mixed weird results. Find a babe that responds to the chemistry. It will drive the "confused" one nuts & she will have to have you. When she realizes that another babe wants you, she will recognize that you are the right one.
2007-02-26 23:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by lmoglen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just keep it as friends for the moment, and see how things play out. If things play out for too long then ask her.
2007-02-26 23:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by John T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's gonna make out with you, she doesn't just want to be friends. you just have to spread things out over time, don't jump to the bed that fast. she's interested, just take things slow and get to know her more.
2007-02-26 23:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by that boi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she isnt ready for all to physical of a relationship... or shes not to sure she wants a relationship at all.............. chill it on the physical stuff and take her to movies and out on fun dates and stuff... get to know her better...
2007-02-26 23:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by may 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a fu*ck outta her, best you could hope for, find some other chick to fu*ck
2007-02-26 23:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋