i got married stayed only for the 1st one month and went back to finishup my studies its been past two months we are staying together and i am not happy he expects too much from me he want me to go for the job in the same time he want me to do all the houshold things like washing cloths , sweeping and moping the flour cooking( all manually), i just finish up my phd and is now at the place where people dont speeak hindi or english, i have problem going out and seeking job. allmost every day he is reminding me that i am not doing the houshold job properly plus i am not trying for the job and your dad had kept a condition that if you will let my girl do job you can marry him
i to want to write down the research paper as soon as posibel, i to want to go for job, i dont want him to get angry over me which he does always today in the morning itself he got angry because i didnt bring him the insect killing spray.. i thaught can was emptyand he got angry and i too went off with angery then
2007-02-26 15:12:29 · 2 answers · asked by AMS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm a believer of annulled marriages. It's better that your finding out the bull ish now than later. All that crap about doing all the work is means that you've got a shovinist pig on your hands. If a man doesn't like to do housework, that's all well and good, but then he should be willing to pay for a housekeeper if he refuses to lift a finger.
Is that who you want to be the father of your children?
If you want to be happy. Be brave. Be Bold.
Do you really see a future with this man?
2007-02-26 16:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Get Togetha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a control freak and it will not get better. If you want to be treated like a doormat, it's your choice. It is also your choice to leave him and start your own life. With your education you will find a job sooner or later. Have some respect for yourself and don't let him treat you like a servant.
2007-02-27 01:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋