my bestfriend told me about this guy she met weeks ago and thinks that she's already inlove w/ him.i ask her ,"is he courting u?",she said no,they're just close but i think she's really inlove w/ the guy.i got to see the guy when i was w/ her during a gig.i cant deny it but im also attracted w/ him.he's calling me everyday and we're exchaging text messages.i did not tell my bestfriend bout it.what will i do?this guy is also inlove w/ me.he told me that he dont have any feelings for my bestfriend.
2007-02-26 15:06:43 · 16 answers · asked by mitchy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly I would ask the guy if it was okay if he told my bestfriend the truth and didn't make her feel in love and then get kicked to the curb. You should also tell your friend that ur kinda feelin this guy (if you are) then ask her if its alrite if you start seeing him. If she says "no" then just drop the guy cuz i bet he's not worth a friendship...I don't think you're betraying her, just don't wait too long to do what u gotta do
2007-02-26 15:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by LadyPureDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date the guy, there are lots of guys out there and not enough best friends. It's definalty not worth a friendship for someone you just met.
The best thing to do would be to tell the guy that you know your friend likes him and out of respect for her nothing can happen between the two of you.
2007-02-26 15:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously, after reading your story, i believe you're not betraying your bestfriend. he just happened to have more interest on you than your friend.it is actually always happen in friendship where you think you're cheating to your friend but actually your not.and when the guy is also in love with you, it is totally okay. just don't hide this matter from your bestfriend's knowledge.
i just want to warn you here that maybe the guy just actually having fun with both of you.you better check it out.ask your bestfriend about it.
2007-02-26 15:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by girl_dragon2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously NOT worth giving up a best friend for! He started out by betraying her...and you're next. If you lose your best friend to date him, and then a week or so later you guys break up, it would not be worth it!! Tell him your situation, and tell him you won't do that to your best friend. If he really cares, he'll understand...and maybe even wait for you!
2007-02-26 15:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by nguam4now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are Betraying your friend totally. Guys come and go best friends last forever. Never get involved with the same guy as your friend it is never a good thing.
2007-02-26 15:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by green eyed lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should forget about the guy. it's not worth losing your best friend over. i'd tell her that you'd been in communication with the guy so that she doesnt find out later and freak out on you and blame you for him dumping her. get out of this now before it gets any deeper
2007-02-26 15:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't do that to each other --- you should never let a guy come between you and your girlfriend --- forget him -- there's other guys out there. And he's no catch if he's playing both of you.
2007-02-26 15:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmm i wonder wats fogging up ur brain? it obious...who r u going 2 go with; ur BFF or some guy u met a week ago. tell ur best friend...hes probably saying the same thing 2 her.
2007-02-26 15:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should wait until he breaks up wit her then wait lik a week or so and ask her if it will b ok if u went out wit him, if she is over him she would let you but if not i say go for it........but r u willing to loose a best friend over some guy........if she's not cool wit dat.........
2007-02-26 15:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you willing to lose your best friend over a guy you barely know? if so then go for it. your friend probably needs better friends anyway
2007-02-26 15:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋