And who's also already thinking of the names of his kids and how many he's gonna have. Cuz i have a couple of friends who think that I'm wierd and some say that that's cute, i just wanna know what you think. Cuz like i already know what i'm gonna serve at the wedding, the wedding colors, the song, the reception, the church, the after party, and the wines. The only thing that's left is the lady, but i'm still looking. I think i wanna get married when i'm like 24 or 25. So wat do you women think of a guy like that?
2007-02-26 14:53:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women like to pick thoose things out too. I'm really trying to be nice but you need to lay back and just relax for a bit. You have a whole 9 years to go. Plus the lady might think your pushy, and only want stuff done your way.
Hope I helped!
2007-02-26 15:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jaannaaaa <33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen I'm not a woman but I couldn't help but commenting...
Couple of points here - Firstly a well planned marriage is not about the wines, the venue and the guests. Its about being ready to manage a relationship, to take on the emotional, financial and physical commitment. To have a fantastic wedding, you need money - which needs to be earned and saved...
To earn your money, you should really be planning out your academic and professional future at this age - things like what colleges you want to apply to and the major you want to pursue. The better settled you are professionally/financially, the better the chances of a successful marriage - money is one of the leading reasons spouses fight. The other reasons could be personal incompatibility - it may be worthwhile to date a couple of women and figure out what a relationship is like.
Keep in mind that women find successful men very attractive - it will also make your wife respect you more.
Also marrying early may impede your chances of finishing an advanced degree (note a spouse needs attention and time, whereas a college degree takes all of the time that you could have).
PS: Planning a wedding, names of kids, etc is not a unilateral decision - what you plan may be completely vetoed by your fiance / wife... So spend your time on enjoying your life and doing things that you can control at this time.
2007-02-26 15:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by sandeepkhemani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be careful about mentioning all that to your woman. Women love to organize their own wedding, you might have a bit of trouble persuading the lady that your way is the best way. It should be both of you planning your special day! Be open to compromise and in the mean time, leave those plans alone for another few years. You'll scare her away before you even get to know her. Maybe when you've met the right woman all that planning might not matter so much to you.
Remember, females love getting their own way so dont go making concrete plans, she'll probably change them on you anyway. That said, you shouldnt give up on a woman just because she doesnt like your ideas and wants to do it her way. Be willing to compromise ALL the time! Good luck :)
2007-02-26 15:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Embrisa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok chill out some because what u want and what the future bride wants can be totally different. Besides it should be up the to bride to plan the wedding and you should help her. Bro just think about getting a gf first ok.
2007-02-26 15:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by Stumped 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep! in basic terms approximately all, or certainly a hell of a sizeable sort of them do! My female buddy of three years already is conscious what she needs and the place she needs it, and we are only 21. females look to plot for whats maximum mandatory to them. and it is not basic to alter their plans in the event that they're obdurate.
2016-10-16 14:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its kinda cute that you're thinking about that stuff, but you cant do every detail. Once you meet the lady, she's going to want to have some say in it too. You need to slow down buddy. You have plenty of time to think of that stuff. You and her are supposed to plan this TOGETHER, not only one person.
2007-02-26 14:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that could help. some women get overwhelmed that there guys dont do **** with the wedding. So give you opinions but dont be overbearing. be honest . Give her the final say whern it comes to that. k? hope I helped a little.
2007-02-26 15:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by natalie h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cute that your thinkign about the future, but you all ready have everythign planned--which is creepy. and then the woman you get married to will have no say in the wedding. adn then shell be pissed off.
so, you went to far, btu thinking about your future is cute.
2007-02-26 14:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whaaaat man Im 18 but THINKING just thinking to getting married nooo. Look dont even worry about that now. enjoy your young years.
2007-02-26 14:59:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, really!? I guess I am just one of those gals who never really thought about that.
I've never really knew much about a wedding.
There is nothing wrong with you, though. I think it is sweet that you are only looking for one gal.
2007-02-26 14:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋