I can't stand liking just one guy...it's like a comfert blanket to me..when one guy acts like a jerk i have the others to make me feel better...but i've realised that bcuz of this behavior i haven't been able to have a real relationship with any of them....here are the top 3 guys...tell me who i should pick and what i should do?
who should i go for.......guy#1 definatly likes me..super nice, cute, but for some reason i just don't feel attracted to him. guy#2 i have a connection with..but he had a serious gf (8months) who broke up with him bcuz she suspected something with him and me...now i think they may be getting back together soon...guy#3 recently met..single..cute..nice..im attracted to him, but unsure about his feelings for me.
2007-02-26 14:50:05 · 15 answers · asked by Cheergirl<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way....im not sleeping with any of them
2007-02-27 12:26:17 · update #1
firstly - you're awesome.. like your way of thinking.yo go girl.
now the guy #3 sounds the best.
don't go with #1,coz if your not attracted to him eventually you will just be breaking his heart. # 2 is just bad news... you 're far better and superior than to be with some one who even remotely has a gf.
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2007-02-26 14:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya! Not enough time is always a problem! I say none of the three. #1 because if you just don't feel attracted to him then why bother getting into a relationship that later you'll just be trying to get out of. #2 because if she has concerns with you and him then it will be vice versa too, you have concerns with him and her...just a waste of time. And #3, well you just haven't had enough time to truely feel out the situation. If he's attracted to you, then you should know real quick like...make your decision then. Based on experience, the more you look for a realtionship, the more you don't find it. Just go with the flow and it'll be right there under your nose when you least expect it! Good Luck and stop searching...love will find you!
2007-02-26 22:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Punkie Brewster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
****** *****.. u probably already have such a **** reputation that none of them will take u seriously !!
And do you seriously think that 'guy number 3' will not cheat on you with another girl since he already did it on his ex?
I think you need to get a grip with reality. If you wanan sleep around, do so, but dont try to act like yo uwant a relationship coz everyone probably knows what and who you are and are probably even competing over who gets with you first and dumps you.
'When one guy acts like a jerk i go for the other'
Well, how about, when one guy acts like a jerk you try to fix it? If you cant take someone acting like a 'jerk' at times then obviously ur not ready for a relationship. You will NEVER find anyone that is perfect. Im sure ur not perfecrt either and ur just as much, probably much more, of a jerk than those guys.
Advice: find someone who you love and loves you back and one which you can accept him being as a 'jerk' at times and not cheat on him. Once you get the proper girl image, guys will take you seriously but at the moment.. it doesnt look like ur gonna have anyone taking you seriously so just sleep around or even become a porn star and ull even get paid for sleeping with different men! good huh?
2007-02-26 23:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by viva_italia1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby I think u need to stick to one guy. I don't care if getting under a new one makes u feel better. U need to try to work things out with one and if that don't work then u may move on to the next guy. Don't just get changing men like that, that makes u seem like a u know what.
2007-02-26 22:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can say is follow your heart. Let number 2 go, but still stay his friend. Find somebody your attracted to. Number 3 sounds good, but I can't tell you what to do. You have to follow what you want even if it takes a little bit longer to find the right person to date.
2007-02-26 22:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 3 sounds like the best bet, By the way, I am getting a bit old so try to move me higher up on your list before I become like the dog chasing the bus, if he catches it he won't know what to do with it.
2007-02-26 22:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really approve of going with mulitple guys myself, but whatever floats your boat.
Go with Guy#3. A fresh clean slate to start with. Just keep at it with him and I'm sure he'll tell you how he feels about his feelings for you.
2007-02-26 22:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by JLW74033 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl playa playa try guy number 1
2007-02-26 23:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by honeybuzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think any of these guys are going to take you serious you already have a bad rep. you need to start respecting yourself so others can do the same.
2007-02-26 22:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have commitment issues. were you abused as a child? maybe you need some counseling. and i'm being totally serious.
2007-02-26 22:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by eriq p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋