im 14 and in juinor high and i've been with my boyfriend for over 4 months now. What do you think? Like is it to long or something like that just give me yur opinoin
2007-02-26 14:47:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too long for what? You planning on filing for joint health care benefits or something?
Look... u like him, he likes you. You hang out. Have fun. What could be wrong with that?
Odds are it's not gonna last forever. And really 4 months isn't that long in the grand scheme of things. One of you will get tired of the other, but hopefully you'll still be friends.
As long as it's not interfering with school or anything else, enjoy it while you can. And don't worry too much about where it's probably not going to end up......
2007-02-26 14:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by helpful_dude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No offense but based on how my school works you will probably be over in about a few days. I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend because I beleive in waiting until I am at least 16 when I can have an actual relationship that lasts. If it does last for you then great but if it doesn't maybe it is a sign to not be dating at this age.
2007-02-26 22:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you wether that is to long a time or to short a time. B/c no one is you. If you feel you shouldn't be with him then you shouldn't be with him anymore. If you still like him and have feelings for him then be with him. A lot of people will tell you the longer you've been with someone the better it is. But what do they know.. They aren't you. This question sounds like you might be doubting yourself. Think about your relationship with him and then see how you feel. No one can give you a right or wrong answer to this.. It's all you...*smiles and good luck*
2007-02-26 22:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by sweetheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are your age you want to do all you can to explore and find what it is that your body will desire. When that special someone comes along you will really know it. Only you know in your heart if it is too long. just take things slowly. You are 14 and I dont think you really need to be desiring anything right now but what I am saying is if you think it is too long of a relationship right now then stop before you get too far in.
2007-02-26 22:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by skimosmom1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not too long and It can be a healthy relationship too, as long as you both know your boundries and keep a healthy balance between that relationship, and with your individual friends as well. You'll want all of those memories to look back on as you grow. Just try to not let it get too serious, and keep up your school work, most importantly.
2007-02-26 23:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by sheri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw. No I think it's great...Most kids in my high school are over before the end of the day lol, It's nice to hear that a couple lasted more then a week lol
2007-02-26 22:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's nice that you have been able to stay together for four months because junior high relationships don't usually last very long. but, you're still very young. enjoy it and let whatever happens happen. If you two make it through the rest of jr high and into high school, that's excelent. beyond that? fabulous! good luck to you, hun.
2007-02-26 22:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by carebear_grl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even go out with him if you don't want to stay together but for a few weeks? I don't get this question.
You’re mad that you and your boy friend had been together for 4 months. Wow maybe 14-year-old shouldn’t be dating? Or do you have your eye on someone else?
2007-02-26 22:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are never too young. i dont personally beleive in love but i know that you can truely care about someone. Im a freshman in highschool and my bestfriend and her boyfriend have been dating for 17 months. if the boyfriend thing isnt affecting you social life , school life and home life then having a boyfriend is fine.
2007-02-27 20:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the good thing about junior high is the relationships aint that seriouse if i didnt like him..id dump him and move on to the next guy
2007-02-26 22:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by natalie h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋