I'm almost 17 years old and have yet to have a boyfriend. I'm not socially awkward, and I do think I'm decent-looking, not horribly ugly or amazingly beautiful. Why do I feel so unattractive, I don't even get hit on in a gross way! Am I doing something wrong?
2007-02-26 14:45:51 · 8 answers · asked by Shirine D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confidence is attractive and vice versa, nervousness and a lack of self belief shows. Don't worry about meeting boys, instead concerntrate on having fun and being yourself. It all gets a bit less intense when you leave school and home anyway. Negative preconceptions about other people and indeed negative self beliefs that build up are, I find, often associated with a particular place or social group. Moving away from these areas enables you to be yourself. Love yourself and others will too.
2007-02-26 14:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What, do I hear right, you miss the fact some ape hasn't tried to hit on you in a gross way. Don't worry, just be yourself, smile and be happy with your youth. Don't wear too much make up, just enough to highlight your good features. I am a little too old for you (way way to old really) but you sound really sweet and lovely and to me. There, you have already won an admirer without me even seeing you. Beauty is sometimes not always on the outside so remember that too.
2007-02-26 22:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more confident. It attracts guys. Don't make it the be all and end off of life. Your not unattractive.Just that the right one hasn't come along yet, and he may not for some time. Just enjoy your freedom, while u still have it..lol
2007-02-26 22:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt that way back then..its just a phase. Sometimes when no one is looking, and you go with the flow and be yourself and do what you do..thats when you least expect it..someone will find you attractive and beautiful..don't sweat it, your beautiful no matter what.
2007-02-26 22:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by Amber K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being sexy is all about attitude. If you feel unattractive, people will see that too. You have to belive you are hot. Be yourself. Be patient, you'll find someone.
2007-02-26 22:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind, generous, decent, and stick up for yourself, and then just wait...confidence (not *********) is something that men and women are both attracted too.
2007-02-26 22:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by tarnefar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are find someone who deserves you when the time is right!! you have many amazing qualities unique to you... that right guy just hasn't come along to notice and compliment you on them quite yet.. i don't know what could be keeping him though... but i'm sure he'll come soon.. whenever the time is right.
2007-02-26 22:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put invisible make up on your self esteem and study hard in school.
2007-02-26 22:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by emily45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋