Why is he acting like this???

Question

After we broke up my ex said we would still be friends. He would still talk to me and hang out with me and our friends. But then he started to avoid me. It's gotten to the point where I'll walk up to our friends and he'll just turn his back on me. He won't even look at me. He dosn't talk to me at all. He won't go to any of the after school clubs we were both in before either, and won't tell his best friend why he decided to quit. We had a pretty mutual break up, he just didn't want to be with me anymore and I didn't plan on staying in a relationship where I wasn't wanted. I never did anything to hurt him. He has told me he dosn't love me anymore and that he never wants to be with me again over e-mails so I know he dosn't have feelings for me. So why can't he just be my friend? I'm not trying to get him back, but it makes things kind of weird when hes avoiding me and I don't want to lose a friend. Maybe I can fix it if I know why hes being like this. Any ideas?

Answer 1

your hearts in the right place for wanting to be friends with him and for caring about your relationship that much. But maybe I think if he he's afraid that if he hangs out with you there will be this akwarness between you guys and he is probally trying to avoid that. Now it's great that you don't want to lose your good friend but if you keep at it you'll drive him away but if you give it some time for him to let things sink in then he'll come around

Answer 2

give him time and a little space. he probably doesn't want to make things awkward between you two and your mutual friends or something like that. guys are hard to figure out sometimes. be patient. maybe he'll come around. but, don't push it or that'll drive him away more. good luck.

Answer 3

Just let him go and get on with your life. Give him some time and space.