I said a prayer for your grandchildren the moment I saw the questions and before I read it. I am/was an abused child and the emotional abuse, brainwashing, and wondering if you think normal are very big questions for them to ask. Tell the child what is normal or in way of normal. Tell them it isn't or wasn't their fault, this is the big one, it wasn't their fault. They are / were in the care of an adult and the adult is the one responsible for their actions because children don't know the difference. I really hope that you have called and filed a complaint against this bi*ch. I would like to take a peice out of her myself. Tell the police that she has a gun in the house and be frank. Call the children's aide they are on your side, any negativity will lead your grandchild to think its normal behaviour, tell them its not and what is normal, unconditional love is normal and it does not entail scare tacticts. A child needs to feel safe, loved and loved more. Pray yes, and really mean your prayers, call your priest or minister, tell him what is going on, call everyone you can, childrens aide, friends, everyone you can for help. make sure you have open communication with the police and/or someone who you can call about this and do whatever you need to do to keep yourself sane. If you can keep your sanity, your grandchildren will look up to you for support, be there love them and if God has his way they will be protected too. But if the later happens, its for a reason and is not seeable through your eyes at this moment, its faith that keeps us going and love will give you more hope than you can wish for, live, love and laugh, it will get you though, laughter is the best medicine and the one that will keep your looking for a better reality and the one that will see you through your sorrow. Pray and pray again that you can deal with whatever really is going to happen. Do what you can and know that what you did was all you can do, and be glad you had the nerve to speak up and make things happen, because things don't happen if life wasn't like that. You have my warmest regards and prayers, take care Heather
2007-02-26 15:03:27
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answered by Anonymous
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i will pray for for both the childeren and i will also pray for the parents if it is anything like the county i live in they have to do a bunch of felony type stuff before they can even get help for the drug problem if sciocal services stepped in then they should order both parents to get help and be drug tested at least they do in my county , if they flunk drug test they automaticly go to jail here , call the social worker and make arangement to visit your grand child they will work with you on visitation and they will ask you what you think the problem is and tell them drugs and let them send them for help they will also get parenting classes if they go to jail it is dry out time and at least you would know they are been fed and are still alive and well i will pray for the childeren its sad that they had to be seperated threw this and it is hard on the childeren and its not fair to them to be seperated like they are i know a family right now going threw the same thing except there was 3 different dads and they sent one child 4 states away from her other 2 siblings its sad they need each other at a time like this there should be a law the childeren stay together they cant help what was done its not there fault but yet they get punished its wrong i know
2007-02-26 15:20:24
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answered by family fan 3
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There's nothing wrong with asking others to pray for the situation with your granddaughter,but,I think you should do the following 3 things:
1.Report anything suspicious to your local police and Child Protective Services as soon as possible.
2. If you attend church on a regular basis,get pastoral counselling regarding this matter.
3.Go on Beliefnet.com.That's a great interfaith web site with a section where prayer circles are formed by people on a daily basis for all kinds of reasons.
2007-02-26 14:58:35
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answered by auntfran8 3
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OMG! Sick. I am also in a situation with child abuse and the stepmother, all is ok now, will never be normal tho, never. Too many crazy people in this F U world! My Prayers are with you and your grandchildren. God Bless
2007-02-26 14:57:31
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answered by Anonymous
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My friend,
I will pray as hard as i can; as if they were my own children. But you must contact social services or a trusted clergy member or someone who can validate your fears and put an end to the danger these babies are facing. I will pray for blessings and God's grace and mercy for the children and for the pain you are suffering. Please contact your pastor to help you and them through.
All my prayers are with you and may God bless you and those kids.
Peace to you and may the grace of God soothe your pain.
2007-02-26 14:55:23
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answered by mina 2
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I would be more than happy to pray for your grandchildren.I'm also a grandparent of 11.And there's
nothing I wouldn"t do to protect them.Remember God will
work out all the details.And any lies will come to the surface with his help.
2007-02-26 14:53:05
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answered by sharen d 6
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Prayer is superstition.......wish on a celeb, rub a rabbits foot or do something with a horseshoe. comparable consequence. Sorry, the fact now and back hurts. possibly you're able to do something sensible like consult from police, lacking newborn web pages etc
2016-11-26 01:20:02
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answered by ? 4
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everynight i pray for everybody so i will pray for you'll i just got threw something like this but not as bad my kids step mom locked one outside of her house because she tole her she loved me an not her but my baby was only two an a half years old so i will pray for you an god bless you
2007-02-26 18:03:49
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answered by the mule 2
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Yes, And the children are better off and now stand a chance in life. Now they can feel loved and safe......God Bless you
2007-02-26 16:43:09
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answered by kows4sale 4
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Im sooooooooooooooooooooooo sorry ... i will defenitly pur them or her in my prayer group !! i hope this gets better and i will pray for you to so you arnt sooo scared i know how that is .. again im sooo so sorry and will paray for you and your granddaughter in my thought and prayers everyday ....im a christan adn hope this gets better lets do a parayer right now ....
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dear lord jesus i come to you to day and i ask that you put your guardian angels apoun this granmother and her grandaughter today lord that you come before them and protect them for evil and lead them into your arms lord that will carry them into your arms and lead them into the right path to heaven lord ... and we just pray that this will get all better and lead them into a loving home were they are loved just as much as you lord.. i thank you lord jesus ..amen .....
2007-02-26 15:26:45
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answered by Anonymous
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