Hes confided in me that hes really curious to know what it would be like to try my pantyhose. He has always complimented me and paid extra attention to how my legs look when I wear pantyhose to the office for work or out for dinner etc. Part of me was unsure about letting him try at first. But I'm also thinking why not, if hes so curious, let him give it a try to experience how it feels. I'm really glad that hes confided in me with this, so Im leaning towards letting him do it as a reward in my own mind for being so open with me. Hes a wonderful husband and we have been married for about 9 years, and hes been really supportive of my feelings and career, etc. Just wondering what some of the other women out there think of letting him try or have similar expereinces.
2007-02-26 14:36:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I have been married for 4 years. It would bother me...
2007-02-26 15:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by mx3baby 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uhm, married 18 yrs and I'm speechless. Either he's getting in touch with his feminine side or hubby's got some more deeper seeded issues and he's testing the water with the pantyhose. I'm sorry honey, I have no idea what to say. I married a marine and they are pretty manly men.....he'd have to be lying in a coffin before I could get near him with a pair of those. I'm not poking fun. I'm just sort of surprised that after nine years of marriage, he's all of a sudden coming out with this now. Something tells me that this might just be the tip of the iceberg.....in my mind, red flags are waving everywhere. You know your husband better than any of us ever will....go with your gut on this, but do me one favor, don't let him wear them as a "reward" for honesty. If he wants to wear them, let him wear them and be glad he was honest...it might open up more doors to the closets you haven't seen yet.
I wish you well on whatever venture comes your way.
2007-02-26 22:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im really sorry but this is the beginning of the end my sister was married to a guy for 12 years and 2 kids before he came out.people will say no big deal but it really is.I would consider a divorce before I would let my man crossdress.but he probly does it when your not around any way.Either way he has issues.
2007-02-27 01:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It didn't hurt Joe Namath! Whatever 2 consenting adults do in the privacy of their own home is their business. Be sure to buy him a nice silky pair---not the cheapo kind. Fishnet is always an interesting option, too. Have fun and enjoy!
2007-02-26 22:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by flipdout2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be surprised how often this happens hon! It does not mean he is going to run off and have a sex change... smile.
I think that you two are comfortable enough that he can risk his feelings telling you this is a complement to you both and your relationship.
Let him. It is a harmless thing. Personally, I think the things are awful and wonder why anyone would want to wear them but then, women have to at times!
2007-02-26 22:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sure what the hay let him try them on. if anything it will be something to laugh about as the years go on and could even become an inside joke for the 2 of you.
2007-02-27 00:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what size he should buy that will fit him and have fun with it. I never wanted to wear them. but I love great legs in stockings and a garter...or stay up stockings. :)
2007-02-26 22:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by Psycmixer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting him try?Why should he need your approval? I know I look D a m n hot in panty hose and am not ambiguous about my gender.Check out Franco Zefferelli's "Romeo and Juliet",if you don't think men can carry it off.
2007-02-26 22:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by kevin k 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What can it hurt? If nothing else he will be even more appreciative of you when you put up with the damn things to look good for him!
2007-02-26 23:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, even the most completely normal-seeming people have fetishes.
2007-02-26 23:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋