Today when I went to work I decided I was going to try the "ignoring" game on one of the guys since I am interested in dating him. Well anyways, it made me mad to see him flirt with this other girl (tickling.) I looked sad and didn't even bother to look in his direction. Unexpectedly, he grabs the end of my leg (I was sitting on a chair while the others were on the ground.) and hauls it, then smiles a weird smirk, I just raised my brow at him and continued looking the other way. Eventually it is near the end of the work time, and me and four other girls head to the room to get ready to finish up. The guy I want appears and says something about smiling while looking at me (he knew I was mad at him by now), then he sits down on a chair around the other girls, talking to them (I am sitting away from them) but I looked over at him and he was looking at me nearly the whole time it seemed. Then as work ends, he says "bye girls", and before leaving looks at me, waves and says bye again.
2007-02-26 14:18:57 · 3 answers · asked by Dreizehn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Usually at the end of every day I say bye to him. I didn't today for ignoring trick purposes, which is why I thought him waving at me meant something. He must have cared, correct?
But maybe he just had pity for me (I was acting really sad)? I really hope not. He knows I like him, I even bought him a valentine's day gift, but I am not 18 yet. I will be soon enough and then I can try to see if he really does want me.
He is 47. Big deal, get over it. My decision. Age doesn't matter to me, I sure know what I want. Don't bother picking at it, or else just know your answer will be ignored...sorry and thanks.
I can't date him until I am 18 (which is also when I plan on asking him out. He is not married, and single.)
2007-02-26 14:19:16 · update #1
Also, read this, it's what happened today (the other thing happened the day before.)
I wait before the day ends, and I say bye to him like I always do. He says bye and also replies with a "thank you", so I ask him, "Thanks for what?" he replies, "for having fun during that class" (we all were doing activities.) he then grabs my hand and takes it away but he notices I want it since I try to grab it again so he actually gives it to me and lets me hold on to it as he exits the door. He then just talks about the class being fun and such. He is interrupted by another man that appears to talk to him about work, so I just exit.
2007-02-26 14:19:51 · update #2
I have known him for 4 years. I can easily confirm he is single without children.
2007-02-26 14:36:37 · update #3
honestly to me...he just soundz like he is just a flirt....and a little perverted if he is flirting with a 17yr old gurl....
2007-02-26 14:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by crazyrichgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you but you are looking for trouble with this 47 yr. old man. I bet he is married even if you have been lead to believe he is single. He probably has some children as well.
He is an old man compared to your age. Age doesn't matter?? Think again!! That is all I have to say!
2007-02-26 14:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to get this man fired from his job or worse!
2007-02-26 14:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋