I met this girl a few days ago. I thinking of taking her to the movies, beach, star gazing. something. im not sure what to say on the phone to make it sound exciting like it will be a blast.. we are only friends but i want to get to know her better, can anyone help me out? please!
2007-02-26 14:17:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you take her to the movies, you really can't talk. Star gazing is kind of a romantic type of thing to do, so it is more of a dating thing, not a friend thing. They are good ideas though. You do think outside the box and have good ideas that would probably interest someone as you do get to know her. You could give her a choice of a couple of things and let her choose. She may be uncomfortable at doing a star gazing thing if it is outdoors alone with you, but if it were with a group of people or at an observatory, she might love it. What kind of things does she like? If she likes the beach, that would be a good idea, not here where it is only 29 degrees, brrrrrr. First, take her out to eat so you can talk and find out other interests she has. An amusement park is a good date too. I don't know if she likes the outdoors or not or if it is warm where you are. If it is, I love to fish, some girls do too. She may not. Once you find out more about her, you can find other things to do with her. Have fun and enjoy getting to know her better. Remember to respect her and as your relationship grows, at least look at as friends first. You have to be friends first anyway, Be honest and always communicate in any relationship. Best wishes to you.
2007-02-26 14:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to do something like that,you need to be up front with her.Tell her what you are thinking about,and see if she is down for it.But know that she will either answer yer,or no.You've only known her a few day,so it wont hurt anything to come right out and say what you mean.Hey ______ do you like the beach?What movies do you like?I was thinking maybe one night we go to a movies or take a walk on the beach,or both.What do you think?Then be silent,let her answer in her own time.Don't get in a hurry for an answer.If the answer is yes,Great.But if she says no,then move on But be nice either way.
2007-02-26 14:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, seems such as you're in a capture 22. initially, do you the two have a mutual settlement which you would be able to look into each and each others own cellular telephone messages? If not, and you're saying something too her, she will in all probability get mad.... yet on the different hand, i'm on your ingredient, and that i does not prefer any sort of a courting with somebody this is untrue. appears like she is wanting her cake and consume it too. that's misguided! i'd in basic terms ask her if she is seeing somebody else or is in contact with every person else, and if she says "NO" then that's obvious she is mendacity. Is that the kind of female you extremely want? I then would admit which you observed the message on her telephone, and if she would suggestions explaining that too you. in case you the two have an settlement which you would be able to look into each and each others messages, then according to danger she left it on there for you in looking. She would have deleted the message if she did not prefer you in looking it. you do not prefer deceit in a courting. You deserve extra effective than that. you prefer somebody which you would be able to have confidence and somebody which will love in basic terms you and be very committed. i'm sorry this has happened to you. desirable of excellent fortune to you.
2016-10-16 13:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try saying that real excited , dramaticallly lol ...like girls did :P eg instead of saying :" we can go star gazing " , say something like " we can then go to the beach , enjoy the beautiful view of nature spectualar , dont u just luv it ? etc etc "
But be warn , some gals dont like guys that r too dramatic lol
2007-02-26 14:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey _____,
I was just wondering if you would like to go see ________ with me and my friends.
* always start with friends*
if your not busy.....
she says yes or no
then you say if she says yes: cool!! it will be so much fun with everybody so and so on and so forth
but if she says no say ok maybe some other time but still talk to her like hows that test today or something well GOOD LuCk
2007-02-26 14:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be a jerk and rush her go slow say to her "i have some cool things that i think would be cool for us to do and if you want to do them just get back to me" then do what you planned and tell her after these events if she liked doing them we can do something different or similar another weekened to see if she is interested w/ you goodluck
2007-02-26 14:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by yukonSLT3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do be a pansy, just makeout with her. It wins everytime.
2007-02-26 14:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ignorant Guy. 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yall will b alone sorry not really goodmat this bye bye sexy
2007-02-26 14:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Azul*likimami$$ 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋