If a friend of yours asked you to go have a coffee would you automatically assume she wanted more than a friendship and was asking you on a date?
If you assume it is a date would you still say yes (assuming you didn't have anything else to do) or would you make an excuse so she didn't get her hopes up about it being a date?
2007-02-26 14:15:00 · 7 answers · asked by jenny s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no just that they want to get to know you better depends if she said "when you're not busy" verses "you want to get coffee on sat 2ish with me?" the second one would be a date
2007-02-26 14:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by yukonSLT3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say she is a friend. Guess what? Friends do things together, like have coffee, go to movies, hang out. I wouldn't assume anything. There wouldn't be anything wrong with a little communication on your part. Talk to her. If you are 100% sure you don't want to be anything more than friends, but you think she may want more, be gentle while you are discussing your "friendship".
2007-02-26 22:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no dont assume because maybe he also needs someone to talk to and your the only one that will listen cause your a good listener.if the situation is he's coming on to you let it be know that your not interested in that way only friends.
2007-02-26 22:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow its only coffee she didnt ask to sleep with you
2007-02-26 22:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him, dont be shy about that stuff, it will only cause you heart trouble.so just ask him and tell him exactly how you feel about him, and things will work out...
wiz
2007-02-26 22:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever it is.. just go and drink the damn coffee..
2007-02-27 00:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by w@NEe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AGREE WITH STEVE DRINK THE DAMN COFFEE
2007-02-26 22:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋