ladies would you date a guy like this. an 18 yearl old male that weighs 187 pounds, well defined shoulders, back and pectoralis muscles but just alittle layer of fat on the lower stomach. i workout alot but just i have alittle flab on my lower stomach. My gf said she met a guy who plays beach volleyball, and is ripped all over so she broke up with me. do you girls care if there is alittle flab on the lower stomach. i box alot and do alot of weights used to play hockey but i can't get rid of this little bit on lower stomach. would you rather have a guy whos ripped all over would you mind a guy like my description. ive been trying..i body build but i cant seem to lose this last little 7-8 pounds off lower stomach. i feel really weird because it feels like my gf only went for looks. i need advice.
2007-02-26 14:14:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry about her.
she's shallow.
don't go for the shallow ones. try to find somebody who likes you for you..
you sound pretty attractive. a little flab on the stomach isn't gonna hurt anybody. lol
2007-02-26 14:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by just wondering.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl wasn't serious about you or wasn't ''in love'' with you. that's why when some one ''hotter'' popped up,she went for him ! but the fact is that she soon might find out how shallow that guy is. and he mite even cheat on her because he is hot and many other women are bound to hit on him. she's gonna learn her lesson soon. but when she does that don't be the guy who will readily accept her. don't pick up her calls for a while,don't treat her as warmly you use to before and better yet- get seen with another chick in front of her. this works like magic and in no time she will regret doing what she did... then its up to you whether you want her back !
2007-02-26 14:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not ALL women are like that. Of course everyone wants to be with someone that they're attracted to but that doesn't mean you have to be perfect! There are other things that are more important...like personality etc. So, no I wouldn't mind!
The best revenge is living well and moving on :) You'll find yourself another girl who's likes you for you (as well as your body)...
2007-02-26 14:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's lame. And you are better off without her. I'm sure if you look around you'll see plenty of guys who have a bit of a gut with gf's. If it bothers you that much, stay away from the beer, and diet a bit, it'll go away.
2007-02-26 14:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by grouch2111 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
well i think your gf didn't love you the way you love her...and you are absolutely right that she is only went for looks. She didn't even care about you..If she really loves you..she can help you by saying that you need to lose some weight..exercise more so you will look good..but in her behavior, i think you need to forget her..she don't have the true love that you deserve,
2007-02-26 14:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by i care about you! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her.Time will heal you.Be happy that you're no longer with her.It's not what you think.She's just attracted to the other guy for no reason,not because he's ripped like you said.Come on...use your common sense!She's a player.Mark my words...She's gonna leave that guy for another.Cheer up baby:)
2007-02-26 14:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gf is a jerk. i would date a guy if he weighed 600 pounds. just as long as he has a good personality. not all girls are like her. and believe me, u can do better.
2007-02-26 14:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl friend is shallow. You deserve to find someone better. What's in your heart is more important than what's outside of it.
2007-02-26 14:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well who ever this girl is she was wrong to do that cuase it should be abut the personality not looks so become a good person be nice be yourself and your looks shouldent matter and u will meet the right girl eventully!
2007-02-26 14:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a really shallow thing to do.Dont worry not all girls are like this.This is not a very typical thing to happen...
2007-02-26 14:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by elain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋