all the girls say that im to good of a friend to put at risk over a relationship. it sucks. can i help this any?
2007-02-26 14:05:40 · 15 answers · asked by shireycw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself, babe......not all of us go for the jerks.
2007-02-26 14:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you change who you are,you will be changing into the dick that they you say those guys are.Yeah it sucks,but those girls know the differences between the two because they've either talk to,or have been with just that kind of guy.Be thankful your not like them.Finding a girl who will appreciate you for being the good guy,is more important than being with shallow girls who like the guy that will treat them bad.Be Patient,Your time will come.
2007-02-26 14:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Girls don't always reject the nice guys! TRUST ME! I would much rather have someone who puts me high on the ladder than one who treats me like crap! There are PLENTY of girls like me out there, The girls who go for the other guys are the ones you see walking around prego without a husband, bf, or any thing! There are girls out there that will like you for being a great friend and a bf... You just have to find the right one! Don't give up! She is out there, LOOKING FOR YOU!!! And if you give up, what will she do??? So wait and look for her, she may be right in front of Ur face!
2007-02-26 14:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by irishcountrygal07 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I haven't happened to have found any of the nice guys that want me, I just get the jerks.
One thing that could be it is that they don't want to mess up friendship with the nice guys. I mean if you're really good friends with someone and you date them and mess up, what then? Most of the time they don't go back to being friends (or they attempt and it plainly doesn't work). In that case it means she values you too much to mess things up and lose you.
2007-02-26 14:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by iishq_27_9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just need to show more confidence, but other than that, your a great guy as it seems and you should stay that way because theres hardly any in this world, there will be a girl that likes you for the great guy you are and wont take advantage of how nice you are so dont worry things will get better!
2007-02-26 14:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by MariPari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because Dickd Lie!!! girls dont know there ***** till they get involved...just hold on...as girls mature they want nice guys,the dick thing is usually temporary,you will be sought after in the future...believe me..nice guys do finish last!!! we want nice guys...
2007-02-26 14:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by 2fitornot2fit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls like a challenge just as much as men do. If you become unobtainable and play hard to get instead of confessing your feelings right away girls are much more likely to pay attention to you. Girls go for the bad guys because you rarely see them gushing or being willing to cater to her every need right away.
2007-02-26 14:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls reject nice guys and gravitate toward jerks (aka *****) because they do not feel worthy. And with what they tell you, don't you feel like chopped liver? And isn't it interesting that they so don't want to break your heart, but they are so f***ing good at it?
2007-02-26 14:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they have stamps paste on their eyes lol
ok it really depends on how old u r !
The younger the gal , SOME want "kool" bf so that they can show off to their friends .
And its pretty true , once being out of a relationship , most ppl cant be really truely be gd friends with their ex..
But nice guys do win in the end :) so gd luck
2007-02-26 14:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Cassie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,
Hey, i don't, but yet i guess that's the reason why boys like bad girls and girls like bad boys. It's weird I know. What can a person do about it? Mostly nothing. Wait and see what comes around the corner.
2007-02-26 16:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you are being taken advantage of, which might be because you are allowing others to take advantage of you. try setting some boundries with girls. don't give away too much information too soon. don't help out the girls that did not ask for help. make sure to put yourself first and girls second, wayyy second :)
2007-02-26 14:13:43 · answer #11 · answered by lilyblossom84 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋