are we too young for love?!?!?

Question

i know he loves me, & he knows i love him, but are we too young for love?!?! im 13 and he's 15. to be so young, i feel like i could spend the rest of my life wit him, and he's says he feels the same way. i juss want to know do you think we are too young to be feeling this way about each other this young?!?!

we have even talked about our future together, marraige, and kids!!

Answer 1

of course not, love comes at different ages for all of us.[=

Answer 2

i have a 10 yr. old daughter and i am 25! i know you are probably thinking i had her when i was 15 but actually i adopted her. when i was 13-15 i was not thinking about dating. my daughter on the other hand is very beautiful and boys are already looking at her. times has really changed. i don;t think u r 2 young for love. just make sure that the love doesn't get too far and land u in a situation that u can not get out of. however you asked your ? just a few minutes ago and i do think u r a little 2 young to still be on the internet. do u not have school 2 morrow? anyway like i said just don't let your love take u to a place that u can not handle right now.

Answer 3

Love knows no age. It comes when it comes. But.......you are definitely too young to be thinking about marriage and kids and all that! You two need to focus on school, friends and having a good time. We grow up too quickly as it is and the we wish we could go back. Stay kids as long as you can! Do good in school (for your future) and have as much fun as possible. There's plenty of time for the rest. And who knows, maybe some day when you're grown up, you two will get married.

Answer 4

It depends on how long you have been dating-at 13, you can't have been dating long...or can you have? If it is 2 years, then you have been through a lot together and i would consider it true, but since you are 13 and you would have had to be dating since you were 11, then i doubt it. you have years before you are even out of school, you have plenty of other boys to meet. if it keeps going well, great, but if you've been going out 2 weeks, then i would say it is just "puppy love" and you can be really open and comfortable with each other, but maybe you keep things from each other that you are afraid the other may not want to know.

Answer 5

I thought the same way about a guy when I was 13 too. But in the end did I marry him or anything? no. It's okay ot have a feeling of love, it just depends on how far you take it. And yes, we talked about having kids, but the chances are you guys won't have kids together (yeah I know your thinking "What?! Nuh-uh!" and I thought so too). Just remember, your young and their is much more that lies ahead.

Answer 6

Well you have a lot of living to do, you're still growing mentally and physically... you have what's called puppy love or lust, everyone no matter what age feels like this in the beginning of a new relationship. If you guys are together in 10 yrs i'll believe it's love. Love takes time.

Answer 7

You are too young to be talking about marriage and kids and the future, but love has no age! It is possible to be in love. But take it slow. Love is patience! Everything we love as children doesn't always stick to us as adults. Remember that, but I know people who were together at your age and are still together at 21. Good luck!

Answer 8

you are very very young and have a lot to do before even considering marriage. and you gotta get through school, first, and high school always changes things. he'll be there before you (if he isnt already) so he'll make a whole new group of friends and be involved in different things. he'll be going off to college, too, before you and that makes things hard. i'm not trying to discourage you. if you last, that's great. but enjoy being a teen first before thinking about getting married and kids.

Answer 9

well... i am 13 too.. i agree i dont think there is a certain age where you find love.... from personal experience.. i have a friend who had a babysitter who would go up to the school wehre her mother worked, she had a little bro. in law and they played and played and played and then......... years later when we were in fith grade she told me that one night after she stopped having that babysitter she had a dream and in that dream something told her that if she ever found her babysitters bro. in law she would get married to him and be with him 4 ever well who would have thought that years later her babysitters mother taught her and he came back to the school and has gone there ever since....... now although that may be touching...........she has had her ups and downs with him...... the started going out in 5th grade and now we are in 8th...... they have been going out for ( if you add it all up ) 4 yrs...... now they have gone out 3 time in the past 4 & 1/2 yrs....... they are now happily together for 4mnts. of the 10th of march.......... so if they can find love when they were like 3 or 4 then we can definately find love when your 13 and 14 so love is out there for alll ages :)

Answer 10

Oh..baby,both of you are so young and naive.There's still so much about life that you need to explore.try to stay together though,and don't forget to go on with your studies,cos your education will lead you both to a better relationship.Trust me:)

Answer 11

i was the same way, when i was your age. i never thought of my young loves as temporary. i always hoped that he would be the one that i married. sometimes, it does turn out that way, but usually, not. i do not think its abnormal for you to feel this way.