He grabbed my hand and lingered on it today..?

Question

So anyways, this guy I am romantically interested in, is 47. I am 16. Do not bother picking at the age, because I don't care what you have to say about it being sick or whatever, I make my own choices. And I wouldn't 'try again' until I was 18, anyway. I know exactly what I want. Any mention of age gap insulting and your answer will be ignored. Sorry.

So, this is what happened...I wait before the day ends, and I say bye to him like I always do. He says bye and also replies with a "thank you", so I ask him, "Thanks for what?" he replies, "for having fun during that class" (we all were doing activities.) he then grabs my hand and takes it away but he notices I want it since I try to grab it again so he actually gives it to me and lets me hold on to it as he exits the door. He then just talks about the class being fun and such. He is interrupted by another man that appears to talk to him about work, so I just exit.

Thoughts?

I meant, does he seem romantically interested in me also? Some of you may have read my previous question regarding him awhile ago.

Answer 1

Don't be selfish, your putting him in danger of losing his job, going to jail, and having his life ruined because you want to play with the grown ups.

Answer 2

Sounds like you are in school and he is a teacher. Maybe age is just a number but if he gets caught with you in a suggestive situation he may loose his job or worse. Then he definately will not like you. Also the fact that he changes the subject on you says that you make him feel uncomfortable. I am an adult and I have had several younger indivisuals crush on me. To be honest it is cute at first and then it is just plain silly because of the consequences that will follow. Any rational adult will let you crush on them because they don't want to break your heart. But one day he will. Best thing for you to do is just admire but don't put him in an uncomfortable situation. He will resent you for it. I would rather have him think as me as someone with a INNOCENT crush that a STALKER who watches my every move.

Answer 3

As a teenager, we sometimes fool ourselves into thinking that we have all the answers, that we are adults and can handle all that life will bring, good and bad.

But that is the problem, we are only thinking of ourselves and our own wants, needs, and desires and to hell with what enyone else thinks.

While you are determined to get what you want, your lack of maturity becomes evident in your refusal to look at ALL the issues involved:

1) This relationship is against the law regardless of how YOU feel about it. It's called statutory rape, meaning even if you consent, the law says at 16 you are too young to be in a sexual relationship.

2) If I understand you correctly, he is your teacher. His career will be over as soon as this becomes public.

If you care for this MAN, how can you risk his career, his life, and his freedom simply because you want what YOU want?

You should think on what I have just thought.

Answer 4

well he probably is some perverted old man.. lots of old men look at younger girls like that. (i'm not insulting the age difference, just staing a common fact that occurs.. i get looks all the time from old men and i'm 17) i don't think that this sounds like he is romantically interested sorry to say... but it just doesn't seem like it that much. it could be, i would have to be there to see it though.. but i don't think that just This is much to go on that he is interested.. sorry.

Answer 5

Is he your teacher?

This is weird. But weird isn't always bad. Be careful though. Love hurts sometimes...

Answer 6

you have to follow your heart. that's all anyone can say.