...we've been seeing eachother for a week now and he wants to do it. i like him a lot but i dont want to rush things. so what do you think. if it is too early, how much more time do you think we should date before we do it.
2007-02-26 13:51:04 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? If you are asking this question, you are not ready and should not be pushed into this. He may be asking just to get it over with and dump you soon after. If he cares, he can wait and not pressure you untill you are ready.
2007-02-26 13:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
a week? Yeah I do think it's a bit early. But it's all up to you. If you feel ready go ahead. Have fun. But I think you would be happier in the future if you wait a little bit longer. At least 1-2 months. Plus, theres a bonus, the longer you wait, the more passionate and sexual your bf will be and the greater the sex will be when you finally have it. Do whatever feels right for you.
2007-02-26 13:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A bunch of people who answer this questino are going to say NO WAIT UNTIL YOUR MARRIED!!! or OMG WHAT ARE YOU STUPID?YOU KNOW DARN WELL IT'S TOO EARLY!!! because some people just dont understand. Actually I have the same problem now. What I am going to do though is tell him to wait about a month or maybe even two and if he likes me enough and were still going out and I still like him then we can.
2007-02-26 13:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry but i dont think a week is nearly long enough a year is more like it but ask yourself do you really KNOW HIM and if he wants it this soon then that tells u he could have all kinds of diseases from all the different girls he's slept with if u dont know any thing about his life past family or what he wants for the future u dont know him well enough and if u dont know if u should or not then u dont need to have sex with him and if u tell him no and he doesnt want to be with u then u know he didnt care 4 you if u dont love him or dont think he loves u dont do it!!!!!!!!
2007-02-26 14:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready!! You sound like you could be very young. You should take your time and get to know him better. You never know what type of person you would be sleeping with after just 1 week. Spend more time together and get to know him before you do anything you may regret.
2007-02-26 13:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A week that's all no boo-boo I think it is way 2 early you better wait more like a month don't just give your goodies up cause he tells you sweet things and if he can't accept that you don't want to do it obviously he wasn't for you
2007-02-26 13:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by *♥MiiSz uNiiQu3♥* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should date first, ask him on a date and them see how things work out, if he gets aggressive explain to him you dont want to go too fast.
2007-02-26 13:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One week? You've got to be kidding me?? If you gotta ask this question then you know the answer! If you don't have any respect for yourself then go ahead. If you are a woman of decent morals then you will not have sex with a man you have only dated a week, and you claim you got feelings for. Girl, all he want to do is screw you. You gonna look real silly when he gets it and leaves you alone......................girl, be wise!!!!!!
2007-02-26 13:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my number one rule before i sleep with a woman I picture her as the Mother of my kids
because it is a possibility. The dynamics of the relationships always changes after you rock those cheeks people turn crazy
2007-02-26 14:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only been a week, and no matter how much you like him, that is way to early to start thinking about sex...you should wait a while before even thinking about it!
2007-02-26 13:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by ImLost 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋