dealing with love, friendship, anything at all but i want to know how to lose the feeling
2007-02-26 13:50:05 · 19 answers · asked by J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, through all that I've been through, I still can't answer that with a "good" answer that you want to hear. I can only admit that TIME is the answer. You need to understand that there is not only 1 of whatever you are desiring and that god wouldn't make it inaccessible to you if you really were meant to have it. Try to find something else to take your mind off the obsession and know that one day you will know happiness that would not be obtainable with what you are after now. That's the way god planned it.
2007-02-26 13:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope I never lose the feeling for seeing my Father again!
That feeling keeps him coming back every time I need him! Something he said or did is always in my life! I do not want to lose it!
A wonderful relationship that went bad (with a 5 year boyfriend). I do not want to lose the good times, only the bad.
Do not ,ever, give up the desire for something you Cherish even if you can not have it!
That is pure and simple LOVE!
Unless you are talking about a car or a house, that is a little OFF!!
2007-02-26 22:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by LN has3 zjc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get the answer to that I would love to know~ i honestly don't think you can lose the desire you just learn to accept that you can't have something. The desire will always be there though.
2007-02-26 21:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep on living your life, and in time you'll get involved in something/someone that becomes more important to you at the time. And when that happens the other feelings won't be as important or in your thoughts as much. In time the current feelings may totally be gone, or they might always be a wistful thought...but there will be other things going on that will seem more important.
That's the best way I know.
2007-02-26 22:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by FineWhine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never completely lose the feeling. It will only lessen throughout time because you'll begin to focus on other things in your life. You grow. You change. And so do your interests. Just keep telling yourself that there's better out there for you and you're worth it.
2007-02-26 21:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to obsess about it. Tha gives it a life of it's own. It also drives away friends. I stick close to God. Ieat properly and generally concentrate on myself not HIM. The better I feel physically the better my emotional health is. Good luck,friend.
2007-02-26 21:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep reminding yourself that the person you are met to be with is getting ready to be with you. Sometimes, you have to meet several people you want while destiny is preparing you for something much better@@
2007-02-26 22:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By telling yourself that you can't have everything you want.
By telling yourself that it was not meant for you.
By telling yourself that perhaps it wasn't all that great as you thought it was anyway.
Sometimes, we can't lose the feeling. We have to learn to live with it.
2007-02-26 21:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing is to focus on something else b/ you will never truly be free of that feeling of desire.
2007-02-26 21:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think love is one thing you cannot go with out. Animals and humans both have effection for love.
2007-02-26 21:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋