2007-02-26 13:36:04 · 25 answers · asked by squee squee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What makes someone 22 yo think they know enough to mold anyone or thing. I think he is probably arrogant and probably a chauvinist.
2007-02-26 13:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
'That's a good quest. First of all - if he said it in a dominating way: A huge red flag should be waving right now. Second - NO ONE should ever try to "mold" someone. If he don't like things about you....he should get to stepping. I have a boyfriend who's 7 yrs. older than me & he takes all my good with all my bad. And knows that he can only help better myself - not "mold me" in ANYWAY. I don't know you, but by asking this quest. I know that you're a strong "woman" inside & you know that you deserve someone whos going to help you be a better person, & not by molding you.
2007-02-26 21:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bad...very bad. You should grow into a person that you want to be, not fill someone else's wish list.
You are going to have to grow into your own skin, and become who and what you want to become. I am sure that your parents did not raise you to become someone's lump of putty, and I am sure that one day you will want more for your own daughter, so cut yourself a break here.
It's a real bad sign that your boyfriend would be so openly manipulative, and besides, what is so wrong with you that you would need "molding" anyway? Find someone who can appreciate you for what you are, rather than treat you as a "Fixer-upper".
2007-02-26 21:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need no molding from some Jerk,your 17,you run your Life as you please,other wise you End up being his Servant,but hem to the Curb,he is a Looser,he needs some Molding hem self.I think he is inconsiderate and selfish.
2007-02-26 21:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by karl s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what the "molding" thing means, but the age thing bothers me, you're a minor and he's too old and it's against the law for him to be with you. No offense but if you were my child I'd called the cops a long time ago.
2007-02-26 21:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean he is molding you into a woman? Be a little skeptical of that. He may have good intentions, but we careful. I've dated a lot of older guys and they want you to be a woman SEXUALLY!
2007-02-26 21:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is bad. No man or woman has the right or need to "mold" their partner into something else. Get rid of him...
2007-02-26 22:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by John J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bad because hes molding you into what he wants and what he thinks a women should be like, how do you know if what he likes is good?
2007-02-26 21:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all its illegal but i know you're about to be 18 so at this point it probably doesnt matter but its depends on what he means by molding you into a woman but either way it goes thats not his job its yours so thats kinda bad
2007-02-26 21:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats wrong, molding you into a woman? ask him then what he thinks of you now?
2007-02-26 21:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by stillbay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋