let's say that there are 2 guys you like, and...
one is going to leave for another country this summer, but you like him a little better than the other person. he's better looking but also has a nice personality. also, he is responding to your flirting.
the other is not-so-good looking, but is more funnier. he too has a nice personality. you would defininitely like to be friends with him,
but you're not sure that you want to be his girlfriend.
both are smart, and both are very nice to you.
which would you choose??
2007-02-26 13:33:56 · 30 answers · asked by wordsofapoet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he can make me laugh,has a nice personallity, and is decent looking, i would pick the second guy the " not-so-good-looking" one. even, the other guy wouldnt b able to spend alot of time with u, hes going to another country. . .it would be a long distance relationship
2007-02-26 13:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm...I don't think I would choose either. Of course, I'd be friends with them, but I wouldn't want either as a boyfriend. The one guy, who is better looking and has a nice personality, is going to leave the country so there really isn't a point in pursuing a relationship. However, that doesn't mean that you can't play with him and have fun with some meaningless flirtation ;). The other guy sounds more like a nice friend. Remember that you don't have to be his girlfriend. It seems that you get along with him great as it is, just being his friend. I think you should keep your options open and not choose any one of these guys you mentioned. Neither seem like they are "boyfriend" material.
2007-02-26 13:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Chelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should choose the guy you like more. Even though he's not going to be there with you during the summer you can still keep in touch. And maybe the guy you like is VERY funny but he didn't tell you any jokes yet. (Plus he's better looking) ;)
Just go out with the guy YOU like more. Looks aren't as important. You can still be friends with the not-so-good looking guy by not flirting and sort of ignore him when he asks you out on a date by saying the lame thing, I'm sorry I like another guy but we can still be friends. I won't be surprised if he's a little mad at you but it'll be OK.
2007-02-26 13:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by The Curse of Curves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the one that is leaving the country coming back? If so then wait for him. The only problem is he may find someone else when he is away. If you can only see yourself being friends with the other one then i wouldn't get into a relationship with him. Keep him as a friend for now and who knows maybe you'll find him to be boyfriend material after a while.
Good Luck.
2007-02-26 13:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you have to commit? It seems that if their not looking for a relationship with you, why choose? Have fun with both and let fate do the rest. You can be friends with both, without moving on to the next level, and by hanging out with both of them more often it might make you like one better than the other, and give you a clearer perspective on the situation. good luck
2007-02-26 13:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by jcaru85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would choose the first guy first since you really like him. Then when he moves and you guys break up((because eveyone knows long distant relationships don't last)) wait about a month or so and if you still like the other guy and want to be more than friends go out with him.
2007-02-26 13:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time with it. If the guy's going to another country in the summer and you really do like him more, then do something worthwhile with the time you've got! Just don't expect a big long-term thing, you'll just end up with your heart torn out.
But really, the best thing would be to just continue things with both of the guys as friends and see where things end up.
2007-02-26 13:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd choose the second one because the first one is moving away to another country and is probably going to start a relationship there. Looks aren't everything.
2007-02-26 13:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that you can have a relationship with the one who you flirt with then ya go for it, but if you two are really good friends, I might just stay friends, because from personal experiences my best friend and I started dating and now we don't even acknowledge each other! Just follow what your heart says!
2007-02-26 13:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by Julie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, girl. I would probably choose the one who's not moving away soon because long-distance relationships are hard on your soul. Just think about t and respond to your heart.
2007-02-26 13:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋