My friend has been flirting with the guy i like for week now so i decide to go talk to her about it. She says iits not true so i walk away and dont talk to her. But then i hear that the guy i like goes up to my friend and says "I didn't know if i liked Meg(me) but now i really dont like her, becauses shes being so mean to u." I wasnt being mean my feelings were just hurt. Why are all the guys in love with her, shes really mean, she a ***** to all the other girl but why dont the guys see that she flirts with every guy. Why do they think they're so special??? She's ruening my love life!!
2007-02-26 13:31:08 · 6 answers · asked by Leah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oooo one of those girls she is
ive been in the same position many of times in my younger years
but lets see you guys are pretty close, you guys are in a group together
you both are popular but she the girl with the looks and your the girl with little looks but get presonallite
if u want more from me email me
2007-02-26 13:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by **Paige** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend acts kinda b!tchy, maybe she is exuding a confidence that is attractive to guys... maybe she has the "it" factor that some people have... it doesn't matter. It doesn't mean she is happier than anyone else or that her life will end up how she wants. She doesn't have anything to do with you and you are not a victim of her... let that go. Victimhood is very unattractive to most people.
You have to love yourself because if you don't, people will figure you must know yourself best, and if you don't love yourself, then why should they.
You can't fix everyone out there and make them treat you the way you want, so you have to accept that there will always be unfair things, but you can make your own way.... Be interested in the things that you really like, and meet people that way, and then you'll have something in common that makes you really compatible.
It's okay to be heartbroken a little at times, it shows you have a heart... but don't give them too much power. You can have that confidence that makes you attractive too!
2007-02-26 21:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are young the slutty girls get the love! Guys won't care if the girl is a ***** a slut or a hoe! They won't care until they get older and want someone like you. That's men. Women are the same way. Alot of girls probably like the guy who isn't too good to women. It's a part of growing up. Your friend will wonder why all the guys want you when you guys are older! Trust!
2007-02-26 21:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure right now things seem pretty bad, but my advice is to walk away from the immediate situation and relax, my grandmom used to say, men are like trolley cars, miss one another one will be by in 10 minutes, and with better seats
i dont think they like her more than you
its obvious you are a sensitive and full person, i bet that more people like you than you know about, but in the close up of things you cant see through the agony, im sorry for that part
but i can offer you hope that if you look in a different direction
away from HER because we both know shes a B!+ch
you will find lots of awesome guys who want to know you more
2007-02-26 21:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by drezdogge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the mysteries of life, sweetie. My daughter wonders the same thing about her best friend. I don't get it either. My daughter is prettier, nicer and an all around better person. Go fig, right? There is no explaining people and their tastes in guys or girls. It makes no sense. You can't understand it, you can only live with it.
2007-02-26 21:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because she acts like a h**. Guys love that. It's not the right way to be, but guys stick to girls like that.
2007-02-26 22:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋