I have always had guys friends, I just seem to get along better with them than girls- they can keep secrets, they aren't catty and usually have and give great advice. The trouble is, every so often I run across one that I want to be more than just friends but I think I fall into the 'buddy trap'. How do I stop the cycle?? :))
2007-02-26 13:29:07 · 6 answers · asked by blueyedgirl623 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should add that I am not the tomboy type at all, just a typical Southern girl:)
2007-02-26 13:35:30 · update #1
You guys sure make it hard to pick a best answer!!!! Thanks for the answers, they are awesome...!!
2007-02-27 06:42:47 · update #2
Lay some nudity or intimate contact on him. Guys are normally friends with girls they are attracted to.
2007-02-26 13:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you may have loads of activities with guys that may cast you as one of them. There is nothing wrong with that as it gets you near enough to know some guys really well. I would suggest that you let your feminine side show through a bit more for guys that you do not want to end as your best friend. Do what comes naturally to attract a guy. It may be just that look in your eyes or holding his arms to show you want the comfort of his presence (good for male egos). Then scheme and plan for a good kissing moment. Not a peck on the cheek for sure. When that first kiss is landed, you are no longer his best friend. Good luck girl!
2007-02-26 21:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by hehe haha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, this happens to me all of the time, haha. Sometimes it just helps if you act or dress a bit more feminine, but it's not worth changing your whole personality for. Since most guys tend to think with their pants, I'm sure some of them will want to be more than just friends with you too! :]
2007-02-26 21:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You women are unbelievable, this is what yall asked for, right? "Lets just be friends", whats the problem? Isnt there anything we can do to satisfy you gals? Oh well, Maybe being a "thug" is what yall want, the worse we are the better, i reckon, i dunno. But you women asked for this, now you have it and you still complain, there aint no pleasing yall is there. Thats it, the main phrase from you women, "Lets just be friends", remember, you women are the ones that want it this way. Thats something we guys have had to hear from yall for thousands of years, and thats told to us when we arent good enough to be with you. Its a letdown phrase for us guys, we're tired, get with it and decide what you really want from us. Good Luck.
2007-02-26 21:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try not to relate so much to them, the more common stuff you have with a person..moreso, guy stuff...the more it is beneficial to keep as friends.
stop hanging with the boys so much
the less they see you, the more they want you.
ever wonder why guys fall for that hard to get head game?
because you leave them with more mystery for them to solve if you they see less of you, you dont give as much but only as much as it is needed for them to come for more...get it?
2007-02-26 21:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee, why not turn gay..you'll be so busy eating p u s s y then you won't worry about the guys anymore. Have fun.
2007-02-26 21:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jack M 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋