Ok well my boyfriend and I are ready to introduce our kids to each other and each others kids. I have a 3 year old girl and I don't think it will be so much or a difficult thing for her and him and his children to all get along. The thing I am worried about is his kids are boys ages 11 and 8 their older for one and they will, Im sure have more questions and well as stipulations to meeting me another woman besides there mom in their dads life. I am good with kids and have no problem with them being boys, my question is what to I say when I first meet them? Do shake their hand or just say Hi nice to meet you? I am not so good at beginnings at all so any input of any of you have been in this situation before is helpful. They both have meet their moms new boyfriend and say he is a nice guy, they know about me and that I will be meeting them soon. I guess I would just like to make a good impression and hope to become a friend in their lives as they are the children of the man I care for.
2007-02-26 13:27:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just went through this.. i have three kids and my b/f has two older kids.. Just say nice to meet you listen to what your b/f says to them and pick up on the conversation ask about school what they like to do for fun what sports they are into and so on.. No worries everything will be fine
2007-02-26 13:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello i have been their i meet the man i love 2 years ago he has 2 kids and i have 2 kids and i was nevors when i first meet them when i first meet them i said hello and i told them it was nice to meet them and they open right up to me and my kids love their step dad . but we all have are issuess but we allways their for each other. just dont be to pushy just be honest with any question u ask them. my 2 kids are 10 and 5 and his kids are 12 and 9 i made it know from the begining with the kids i want to be atheir friend i am not try to take the place of their mother they have a mother. email me at crystal_hurd2002@yahoo.com if u have any questions i can help u with .good luck
2007-02-26 13:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by crystal w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shaking there hand is always good and just saying Hi how are you and introducing yourself. Then just kinda ask them questions about them selfs and what they like to do..... Sports, games,movies..etc.
hope I helped a little
Good Luck
2007-02-26 13:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES THEY ARE HIS CHILDREN, AND A BLENDED FAMILY DOES NOT ALWAYS WORK OUT AT FIRST. I HOPE YOU ARE READY FOR SOME HARD WORK. IF YOU WANT SOMETHING YOU NEVER HAD, YOU MUST DO SOMETHING YOU NEVER DID. I KNOW IT'S POSSIBLE, BECAUSE I DID IT. JUST LET THEM KNOW YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO TAKE THEIR MOM'S PLACE, BUT IF THEY NEED YOU, YOU'RE THERE FOR THEM.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-26 13:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by DIVA,DIVA H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all good keeping there interest is whats hard but that takes time!
2007-02-26 13:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋