how to tell him?

Question

I like this guy. We talk only in PE well if he is in my b-ball team. I wrote a letter but should i give it to him? all my friends have done that but they just end up getting hurt. I am scared it might happen to me. I am really really shy. My friends say to talk to him first but how should i start with. need more help/advice.

Answer 1

dont send him the letter. it says that you are immature and cant talk to him. guys like girls that work up the courage to talk to them, especially if the girl is shy. i say start small with little comments everytime you get the chance. lets call this guy Jake. when you see him first thing in p.e. say something like "hey jake how you doing?" or after a game say "nice game" or "i really liked how you played today" and then flash him a special smile. dont worry about blushing, guys find that cute. pay him little compliments here and there. before you know it you'll be used to talking to him and you'll extend the conversations. or he'll start catching on and flirt with you if he's interested. well i hope i helped, remember just be yourself and dont hold back from the things that you want. good luck!

Answer 2

Don't give him the letter, because it will put him on the spot and he'll feel uncomfortable with that I guarantee you. That will probably force a response that you won't be happy with. Talking to him ... breaking the ice so to speak ... is the right way to go about it. Since you talk in PE, it's easy to start talking about something going on in PE and then move it to something going on in school and then move it to something going on out of school.

I used to be very shy when I was your age until I figured out something that changed my life. People like to talk about themselves and there are so few people willing to listen to people talk about themselves that people will actually PAY other people to listen. If you can get someone else (i.e. someone you're interested in) to talk about himself or herself, you won't have to do much conversing at all, you'll find out A LOT about that person and that person will walk away thinking you're fantastic just because you sat there and listened. There is a little art to it ... such as asking questions to keep the conversation going ... but beyond that, just let it flow! In your case, start with something like, "How long have you been playing b-ball?" or "Who are your favorite teams?" Something like that ...

Answer 3

well i don't know what r u going to do but if i was u i probably first get close to him, i mean as a friend, then now there is confidence between both you can make your move, no letters, they doesn't work all time, just be you, girls can ask boys in the 21st centhury both can ask the other one to start a relationship, don't be scared, but also have in mind that being so differents the members of a relationship like hes popular and hot and you're not (4 example) it wouldn't work eachwho with his/her each one, i mean like he's rich and u're not it wouldn't work, but well don't take care of this advice too much because its your life

Answer 4

I think that in one of the conversations that u r having ask him if he wants to hang out or do whatever it is that u want to do (get lunch food after school, etc.). If u don't have a conversation than u can start one after PE by talking about what went on in the gym.

Answer 5

i say be honest and talk to him get to know him first before u give him the letter find out what he likes ,like foot ball teams his farvite food etc his farvoite kind of music and plus find out if he has a girlfriend dont be shy talk to him

Answer 6

No letters! If he's talking to you, keep on talking. Drop hints about where you'll be at lunch or after school and see if he turns up. If he's interested, he'll try to find you. If not, then you'll know without writing him a note.

Answer 7

never ever ever put anything in writing. if you want to talk to him then start out with the simple things like hi and such and go from there

Answer 8

try ur not ur friends