Well i'm the middle child, and im 15. All my parents wanted was a boy and a girl, they really never wanted me. But now since iv grown and my parent had a little girl, no matter what I feel like my parents don't like anything I do! My older brother is the one with the car, always acts cool, hes always putting me down by saying "YOU HAVE NO FRIENDS, GET OUT OF MY ROOM" and my little sister is always annoing me for pointless reasons and my parents love her alot. I am the one who always gets great grades, but my parents only say goodjob then throw it in the trash.... I feel like no one cares no amtter what I do... help....
2007-02-26 13:13:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-02-26 13:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well I'm sure that both your parents love you and if your hurting and feeling this badly I think that you should have a talk with your parents and tell them how you feel. They may just not realize it. Big brothers are always mixed up with friends and girls so that's pretty normal. Same with little sister's I'm the baby of 7 and I still annoy my big brothers and sisters. If you want to spend some time with your brother maybe go ask him if he would chill out with you for a bit, let him know that you miss him and it would be nice to do something with him.
All I can say is that we all hurt but if we keep our feelings inside no one will ever know how we feel so the best thing to do is confront the person/ persons with our feelings, people cannot read how your feeling, it's okay just get it out.
You hang in there and take care.
2007-02-27 12:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your parents are idiots. Just keep doing your best and try not to let things get you down. When I was your age, all I wanted to do was play music. I loved it and I was good at it. I practiced hard and got pretty good. I used to sit in my room and pray that just once my parents would come in and say "Good job! You're really getting good!" It never happened. All I ever heard was "Stop playing your drums!" or "Turn that down!" Even to this day, I've never gotten one word of praise from my parents for my musical ability. It still hurts but what can you do? I carry on, that's what. I am one of the best guitarist/vocalists I know and everyone tells me the same. Except my parents. Go fig, right? Keep on being yourself. You're a good person. Things will be okay.
2007-02-26 21:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone care more if it's just not there. I think you should just continue to be a good brother and a good son. Don't focus on them so much, but rather focus on being true to yourself. Stay on the good path and show them how mature you are as you grow older. Try to be there for you brother or sister if they should ever need you or need to talk, other than that just be nice and stay out of their way. I think someday everyone will feel priviledged to have you as a brother and a son.
2007-02-26 21:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by conni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to learn this the hard way. You're not going to like my answer at all - but here goes. Before you can change that around, you're going to need to get over it.
Forgive everyone else for treating you like crap. It may be hard, each and every time you feel slighted by other people, you're going to need to forgive them so you can change things around.
Then you need to look at yourself and ask yourself what you are doing to cause this kind of reaction in other people? Are you being anti-social and all caught up in your self? Are you feeling bad about your self? Are you unknowingly hurting other people's feelings? Are you sending out negative vibes? People are attracted to positive energy.
You don't have to change your personality but once you start thinking positive thoughts even when things get tough, then people will naturally be attracted to you.
You can also ask for help from your friends and family and ask them about it. You can say, "earlier today, you looked at my grades and it was nice that you said "good job" but what made you want to throw it in the trash as if you didn't care?"
Remember - if your life is messed up and it all sucks, it's up to you to talk to someone and get help in turning that around. No one knows you better than you. You are the only one who can stand up for you to make the world a happier place.
2007-02-26 23:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Christy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal feeling this way as a middle child. However, your parents love you just the same as your brother and sister. You just happen to be in the middle. I suggest talking to your parents about how you are feeling. As far as your siblings go dear, thats common behavior. Talk to mom and dad, have a heart to heart with them. Let them know of your feelings of feeling like a third wheel. Your not by the way. Your a great pleasure in their life I am very sure of that. You can't expect them to see how you are feeling when you don't express it clearly. Start by saying mom and dad I need to talk to you in private. If you can't find the courage to do that. Write them a note of how you are feeling. If they are good parents, they will handle your concerns. Good luck.
2007-02-26 21:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you sat down with your mom alone and tell her what you are feeling like I'am sure if you do she will talk to you about it and tell her what the other two are saying and doing I'am sure she will try to be their for you more, But right now she probly has not even thought about it because her mind is on too many things to note this , and so ask her why this is the way it is .
2007-02-26 21:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww im sry =]]
i noe u prob dont want sympathyy u just want em to luv you.. but i think youu need too show ur parents or talk to them or something! =] i feel ur pain .. i always thought the same thinggg until i talked to my parents and we worked it out noww we get along bettter denn ever!! ur paretns do luv you.. you know that right =] ... talk to them andd see iff theyy cann try and understand.
good luckkk man. i hope everything works out fur u. but always noe ur luved byy friends & family even when they don't show it =]
MUCHOO LUV.
best of luck. my wishes to ya.!
2007-02-26 21:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may fell like your bing left out but your really not
2007-02-27 08:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by glenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-26 21:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by best buy lover 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well...you should talk to your parents alone and tell them how you feel!
2007-02-26 21:39:40 · answer #11 · answered by sports_girl293 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋