he lives in RI and I live in SC. things were going well and he was going to come down and see me...(already got the plane ticket and everything) and then on FEB 12th, he calls me up and says that he went to a medium (a person who talks to dead people) and the medium said that his parents( who have passed away a long time ago) had sent a message to her tell him not to be with me. when he told me that i didnt know what to say.... I dunno if i should believe him or think he was just making up and excuse and didnt have the balls to tell me the real reason why. Its been bothering me because he still calls me because he wants me to wait on him to make up his mind fully.... but he gets mad at me when he finds out i have been talking to other guys... I dont get it!!!! HELP
2007-02-26 13:11:45 · 6 answers · asked by Kristin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not to lecture you (since you obviously don't want to hear it) but long distance relationships don't always work out. maybe this is just his excuse for seeing another girl in his area. although, he obviously wants to be the only one here in your relationship, so give this a while longer and see what happens. prepare yourself though because you aren't sure that he will still be with you again. just watch out, and good luck.
2007-02-26 13:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really likes so u should give him some time to sort things out. even if it was an excuse, can't u see he still likes u. he's a bit insecure right now and he needs time to figure things out. that's why he still calls u to make sure that he doesnt lose u in the process by you going about and talking to other guys. that's his way of saying that he's jealous and doesnt want to give u up just yet. if u really like him, hold on a bit longer and then make ur decision when the time is right.
2007-02-26 21:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by evanescent_eclipse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with: "just making up and excuse and didnt have the balls to tell me the real reason why"-- he probably met someone and wanted to start dating in RI. I think dumping him is a good idea.
2007-02-26 21:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He probably met someone and is trying to figure out of she is better catch than you.
2007-02-26 21:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a nut case and if I were you id cut him out now.
2007-02-26 21:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give this guy to the goats.
2007-02-26 21:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by pitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋