Ok well some people have a problem with white guys liking black girls n vice versa. What do you think? I dont kno what to do cuz im white n i like a black person ALOT...idk i guess i just need comfort to know that someone thinks like I do.....? N if your gonna comment something stupid like "go screw yourself" then dont even bother cuz that just means ur stupid.
2007-02-26 13:06:56 · 22 answers · asked by JC 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a white guy, and have been VERY happily married for 25 years to a beautiful black woman, and we have two gorgeous kids. It's not about the color, it's about how you feel and see this person. You're going to find a lot of folks, including friends and family, who "don't understand". All they need to understand is that's it's YOUR choice, not thiers, and if they love you they'll respect your opinion. If not, you don't want them bothering you anyway.
More than half the world is NOT WHITE.
Good luck.
2007-02-26 13:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the guy then go for it just make sure he feels the same way whethter he is black or white thats not the issue just make sure you are on the same page. I dated a black Texas guy who lives now in Australia. I saw the relationship has having fun I think he wanted something serious because he said he does not want a serious relationship. I replied who is talking about a serious relationship.
2007-02-26 21:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by princess ana j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interracial marriages are becoming more acceptable and therefore the stigmata attached to them is not as difficult to deal with. However if you want opinions that will matter to you in later life consider discussing the idea with your family and closest personal friends (the ones you expect to know 20 years from now) If they agree with you things should be alright. If they do not you may find yourself very lonely in the future.
2007-02-26 21:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bullfrog21 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you dating a "black, brown, off white, red, yellow, or what ever color guy, I'm white and love me some sistas, matter of fact, I can't remember the last white girl I dated. There are plenty of haters out there, but don't worry about them, they just mad because they got now game!
2007-02-26 21:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I personaly am not attracted to black men but I am not against it. If you really like his personality than go for it and if you really feel attracted to this guy it shouldnt matter what others think. You like him. thats what matters the most wther I or someone else likes it, doesnt like it, agrees with it or not, or even likes black people or not it doesnt matter. You like him so go for it.
2007-02-26 21:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by moonlitocean2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to like whom ever you please. You also have to think if you will be able to face all the prujudice out there. The talking behind your back, the looks people will give you. But if you like some one you should of even notice the color of the person.
2007-02-26 21:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to like/love any one unless you are like obsessing and stalking that person you can love whoever you feel like loving race does not matter if you like him dont let no one tell you that you cant love him because anyone who feels that you have to love in your race is just stupid and probably has loved some one outside there race but is to afraid to show it.
2007-02-26 21:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by *Quita_804* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it dosen't matter if he is jewish,mexican, a morman, anything. Thats why it dosen't matter if he is black or white. He will always be the same great guy that he will always be. Love him the way he is because it doesn't matter.
2007-02-26 21:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by cmc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the person go for it, if you are willing to not take comments personal and you will stand up for her. What matters is that you will be the one with that person and are happy.
2007-02-26 21:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just about to get really annoyed with YA, but your question and all the great answers made me feel better!
Do what feels right to you and don't worry about what others think. "To thine own self be true." Good men are hard to find, if he is a good guy, then go for it.
2007-02-26 21:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋