i am only 15 but i want to know what guys want or expect in a girl.
2007-02-26 12:55:19 · 14 answers · asked by kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kay, do not listen to these other guys. I can't believe what they are writing to a 15 year old girl.
And not trying to be moralistic, but more from the point of view that they are WRONG and misleading you.
Guys at your age my in many cases look for someone that THEY are attracted to. But sometimes it would surprise you who would go for who in terms of looks.
I think people like to 'click' with someone. Maybe your in a chemistry lab and you talk to this guy and its really natural and theres chemistry.
Every guy is different so although there are psychological cues that make guys interested-- ie some guys like girls who play it hard to get. Its best just to be yourself.
Concentrate on what you want in a guy first and foremost. Make him jump through hoops. If guys think you are a 'prize' as in you respect yourself, they will be keen.
There are a lot of idiots around like the other guys that have answered this question, but there are probably more sensitive shy types who would make the best guys to meet.
So I have answered your first question - what do guys want initially or what turns them on.
What do guys want once they are seeing a girl- again each guy is different.
But perhaps there are some universal ones:
- cheeky doesn't go amiss
- flirtatious
- loyal
- kind
- intelligent
- interesting
No 1 - good heart
You can sleep with Keira Kneightly and if you don't like her- as a guy- you would walk away thinking- she ain't all that
2007-02-26 13:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honist with you most guys only want one thing and that is sex .others look for sex the way the girl is looking and buit .most none of the guys go for whats in the heart any more and thats the most important thing is whats in the heart .not the looks and if she is or not easy . but there is that fue out there that is the good guys who still go for whats in the heart . hope you do find your mister right .dont jump right into something take your time and make sure its the right thing that your looking for and dont do what a guy want you to do do what you want and what your hearts saying . and you will be fine . good luck .
2007-02-26 13:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by babyblue28806 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They look for a girl that can listen and can communicate, a person with a good sense of humour. Also someone who is confident but not arrogant. Someone playful and makes the guy feel important.
2007-02-26 12:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is the best. Try to flirt a lot and touch. Just try to be yourself and don't be shy guys like aggressive women. Don't try to over do it meaning don't dress really out there like showing your legs a lot or thong whatever, but just dress appropriately/ I hoped this help and play nice.
2007-02-26 13:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Eric D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that guys look for a person with a great personalaty, pretty, smart, and mabey fit and in shap, and not a fat lazy girl who just wants to lay around and eat ice cream all day !!!!!!
2007-02-26 13:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by candace c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty, caring, be a gentelman, open doors etc..be funny witty, and by all means dont be possessive, jealous, or bossy. just remember the old old song just hold on loosley but dont let go...if you cling too tightly you will loose control.
2007-02-26 13:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by placidfury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at that age guys look if ur a hottie,n cool,as u get older its caring and honesty that counts. some looks help too i like girls who have nice legs.. lol
2007-02-26 13:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sick of people asking this quesion... I swear I see it 10 times a day...
♥ Christina
2007-02-26 12:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at 15 is more looks and what not..as they get older the appreciate HONESTY too
2007-02-26 12:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by 7thwonder-answeronigreatness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-----Different men are looking for different things. A big book store has books on the subject; you can browse for free. ---Jim
2007-02-26 13:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by James M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋