If you ladies have started dating someone, and have been on 3 or 4 dates, do you expect us (the guys) to make a move on you and kiss you or wait a little longer? And is it better when the first kiss is unexpected, or if we ask?
2007-02-26 12:52:59 · 21 answers · asked by Romeo_Alpha X 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's very sweet of you to even ask this question! After 3 or 4 dates, I think you could safely try a kiss without asking. In fact, I'd be surprised if after 4...she hasn't tried to kiss you! If she pulls away, then you know she's not ready. Most likely though, she's been on several dates with you...and likes you well enough to give you a kiss without being offended that you tried! Just remember that if you get that kiss...don't suddenly open the flood gates and think you should neck for an hour. Take it slow and do what's comfortable for both of you.
2007-02-26 12:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After about 4 dates I would expect the guy to go in for a kiss yes...As for being unexpected it really doesn't matter just kiss the girl!...Good Luck ;)
2007-02-26 12:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by The TrutH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we expect the man to "make the move" on us and kiss us. In fact, if you haven't kissed us (or at least tried) in the first three or four dates, we're probably wondering if you really like us very much or are attracted to us at all. And it's always much more romantic if the kiss is unexpected.
2007-02-26 12:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Southern Cat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I, personally would want you to make the move to kiss me by than, because I'm not the type to make a first move, and as far as it being unexpected or asked for, if it's unexpected it shows me that a guy has lots of passion, which is a turn on for me, and if it's asked for it shows me that the guy is considerate of me and likes to know what the boundaries are, which is also a turn on for me.
2007-02-26 12:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 3 or 4 dates, a kiss would be nice. I think unexpected is better, but don't be really forceful or it might scare her.
2007-02-26 12:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by Yuki Konoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the chemistry is right between both of you, then I would definately expect a kiss. I would also think it would be romantic if I was asked. See, I don't like to be pushed, but when it's put in a sweet question, well that just makes all the difference in the world. " Go ahead and kiss the girl"!
2007-02-26 12:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of girl is she?I dont kiss on the first date but you guys are on your third or fourth so you would think you already put the moves on her!I think an unexpected should be your first kiss.But make sure its the right timing
2007-02-26 13:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by $**Cutie pie**$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases I would be comfortable kissing a guy on the 3rd or 4th date. I prefer it if the guy asks before he just kisses me for the first time. I think it shows respect by asking. After the first kiss my guy can be as spontaneous as he wants.
2007-02-26 13:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 3-4 dates its high time for a kiss. Nope, don't ask. If she doesn't want you to then she won't let you. Asking sounds like a good way to kill the romance and its less than sexy. I bet she wonders what's taking you so long.
2007-02-26 13:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea I think you should just go for it after 3 or 4 dates. Normally guys should make the move!
2007-02-26 12:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by karolina. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋