that after the relationship was over you could never find someone to satisfy you like that anymore and felt as if it was a total waste of time?
2007-02-26 12:52:01 · 21 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is for tewarieno if you would have read the question correctly you would have seen that we were over now and finding someone else to match up to him seems like just a waste of time because they haven't so it would make perfect sense if you would take time to read the question instead of thinking of something smart a** to say first. But thanks for the input anywhay!
2007-02-26 13:02:04 · update #1
yes. i had this lover for many years and we just clicked together real good and now we longer get together any more and i have never found anyone else as good as he was/is.
sometimes i wish i still had him around my little finger.
i hear ya... :)
2007-02-26 12:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by ~muffun~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about "good" physically...than thats' just a psychological thing. Because when we're "in loved" we're generally biased and think that person is GREAT no matter what they do...so even if they're just good...you think it's AMAZING
But emotionally you can find a really good "significant other" which leaves a scarring impression on you. They set a new presidence to everything...and for whatever reason that were to end it would make you feel everyone else fail to compare....but when you do find someone you'll know how great that peson is and you'll appreciate them more......not making the same mistaeks as the previous ones
2007-02-26 20:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by ALoNe & DiStRaUghT 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cant base all your future relationships on that one special one you had. We all have found that one perfect person in our lives...it comes only once. If for any reason it did not work out....which in many cases it does...you need to move on. There is another person out there waiting...dont judge or compare him to that special person as everyone is different and have their own good and bad points. And is having a happy live with someone you care about a waste of time? If so, then stop looking and some really great catches will be lost.
2007-02-26 20:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by natashainka 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the reason why another person can't satisfy you the way the other lover did. is because you are comparing your new lover to the old.
everyone is different. allowing yourself to be open. will show you that another lover could be just as satisfying or better then the last.
2007-02-26 20:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand what u mean, i mean to find the Exact match in sexual levels and desires is something no one wants to give up wink wink.... and to have to try to find a match is someting else b/c no two people are alike...
2007-02-26 21:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup, that girl was the BA ba ba ba ba ba bomb!!!!!! Haven't even tried to be with any body yet since it felt like such a waist of time. Its all good though, I'll get my swagger back. Good luck to you getting yours!
2007-02-26 21:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I never had that happen to me but maybe it's because you still like that one person! If you still think about that person it's because your feelings are not completely gone! Maybe the way you guys ended left you with good feelings about him/her!
2007-02-26 20:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by Marina d 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the person was your first that's why you find it hard to get the same enjoyment tingly feelings that you can not explain
2007-02-26 21:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by larry C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am battling this issue in my life now... I have sex with a lady now and I just can't feel it. I know I just need more time to get over her.
2007-02-26 20:57:59 · answer #9 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah at least twice
2007-02-26 20:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋