shes full of attitude if she cant get her own way .ive tryed my best ive tryed talking to her shes got no problems .when shes around other people shes like butter wouldnt melt in her mouth shes so nice. she is a little bit cheeky to her dad . i feel like my head is going to pop soon if she doesnt calm down.
2007-02-26 12:38:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
my daughter was horrible from 13-16 she referred to me as her or she. She got along with my hubby just not me. I think it was hormones and when she hit 16 it was like she was a different kid. hang in there but don't give in just to keep peace have hubby discipline her instead of you for a while. If she does something wrong just have her dad talk to her.
2007-02-26 12:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find alot of adults that have attitude when confronted with things too. What I do with my kids is that in my house, attitude doesn't work for you. Attitude mean you lose privleges and get treated like a kid. Of course they will throw attitude around. They want to be treated like adults. But that has to be earned. In my house you are more then welcome to have all the attitude you want in your room. If you wreck things.. I will take everything out of your room. Our family is about respect and kindness. If you can't act like part of the family... live by yourself in your room until you are ready to join, just know we do miss you. That is my attitude with my kids. It works well. When they really want something that cute little attitude comes out and they ask nicely. I don't yell. I don't argue. The older mykids act the older they get treated. That is how I do it
2007-02-26 21:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to get control of her. It's normal at her age to push you as far as she can. You may have to show the difference between her rights and privileges. Be patient and avoid shouting matches with her. Remember she is NOT your equal she is a child and you do know best.
2007-02-27 01:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by Erinyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe a bit of grounding is neccessary here . You know forbid her to go to her friends and no phone andno tv and such . You need to disipline her more .
2007-02-26 20:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to find a form of punishment that works for her...take the phone from her, the t.v. at certain hours, or computer, whatever works! i'm telling you, if you don't get it in some form of control now, it'll be hell to pay later on!
take care!!!
2007-02-26 20:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have allowed her to get away with this. Start to punish this behaviour. Grounding. no pocket money, take away privileges. Once she realises you mean it and won't let her get away with it she will improve
2007-02-26 22:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me shes spoiled. and sounds to me you need to put your foot down and lay down the law and take anything electronic away from her until she learns respect and not to be spoiled.
2007-02-26 23:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i agree with jake ..shes 12. love pushing your buttons at that age extra harder!
2007-02-26 20:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by linda78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably trying to rebel and needs more decipline
2007-02-26 20:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by RaeRae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, wait till she's 16
2007-02-26 21:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ŗεŋεε 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋