Right now I'm sitting here on the computer waiting for him to come home after taking my car. He has no lisense and is probably out drinking alcohol and driving in my car. I told him he could use it just to help out a homeless friend of his, but he has been gone for hours.
He always does stuff like this to me, he has a drug problem. He is your typical druggy, steals, lies, abuses and etc. However I can't leave for some reason. I guess I'm a drama junkie.
Anyway, I could call the police and report my car stolen, he would go to jail because he is already on probation. He would be out of my life finally if I did this. Or should I just wait for him to come home? Then what? I never want to leave so I'd just stuff my anger in and feel more frustatrated.
2007-02-26 12:33:41 · 18 answers · asked by Oshihana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump his nasty butt.
Call the cops... REALLY... you would be doing him a favor--he needs to sober up and grow up.
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2007-02-26 12:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer Anne 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look unless you are waiting for Oprah to call you are the only one who can make the decisions in your life. How you asked the question but put in "but I can't leave him" answered your own question. Why can;t you leave him? Are you that scared of him? Call the police, seek support from your church or battered women's shelter use your Friends. Life is to short to be used by someone and living it scared is not living. Be tough but be smart if he is using drugs watch out. Make sure nothing is in your car before you drive don't want to get caught with possession. But dump the Garbage,
2007-02-26 20:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by casa4me90 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you can't leave this relationship, then you also have a problem yourself. You shouldn't be putting yourself in this kind of situation, and w/ your bf being involved w/ drugs & steeling and stuff, you don't want him to drag you down w/ him and his problems do you?? You should get out as soon as you can. Is calling the cops and putting him in jail your only option?? Why can't you still just leave, you don't HAVE to stay with him, you can do whatever you want to. He's a lier, a theif, an addict, and he's mean to you... I don't understand why you would want to stay with him. You deserve someone who will treat you like a princess. I'd get rid of him in a heartbeat.
2007-02-26 20:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You or who ever owns that car is responsible for it if it is used in a crime or he hit an kills someone. You gave him the tool so your are part responsible, by law . What are you thinking about and why do you think you deserve to be done this way. Can't you get out of this are you a gluten for punishment, if you end up in jail for letting him use your car then you may change your mind. Girl wake up and get out. I can't means I don't want to grow up!~
2007-02-26 20:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by rainingonme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GET OUT.
He's obviously crossed many lines.
GET OUT.
And if it isn't you, but rather some friend or family member who posted this to solicit responses, listen anyway.
You can have passion and exciting sex without drugs and abuse. You may have to endure a bit of bossiness to get it, if you need it in extreme form, but you don't have to endure anything close to this.
When a guy has turned abusive, nothing good comes of the relationship.
2007-02-26 22:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would wait for him to come home, have my stuff packed, and head out the door. If he is drunk, run to the car, or wait until morning while he is still asleep. If he is abusive, call someone to come help you out with your situation.
2007-02-26 20:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Report your car stolen!!
Who needs a druggy in their life - unless you are one too! You can get lots of drama in your life from any man.
Don't be a "wimp" all your life - get rid of this loser and get on with your life!
2007-02-26 20:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha!
isn't that the OH SO PRECIOUS white boyfriend that you are always talking about? thats worse than any black guy that I know!
LMAO
Girl... do nothing about it. Keep on kissing his a$$! lol....
PS my white boyfriend is going to be getting a car for me in May. BTW, He offered to do that, I did not ask him! :)
He is Swiss Canadian
2007-02-28 19:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please leave him, you could be the one that ends up in jail not him. You lend out your car knowing he has no license and that he is drinking and driving. you are just as guilty as he is.
find yourself, let everything be about you. don't punish yourself for his mistakes. make a better life for yourself. and don't take blame for anything you know you didn't do.
Please get help somewhere. Talk to some one.
Good luck in "your" life.
2007-02-26 20:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt do the cop thing to be honest as he may want revenge then as he doesnt seem like a very nice guy........when he gets back dont answer the door tell him to put the keys thru then get on with your life...............he may end up getting you hooked as well!!!!
2007-02-26 20:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sean C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋