so i just had my baby boy gabriel and i posted a question about how to deal with my little girl being a brat... and those answers i recieved helped a lot.
but having my husband in germany to be with his family for a while has been really hard but yesterday i was on myspace and i saw a picture of my husband and some girl so i went and added her and i was like thinking it was his cousin and was like aww aaron i love you and so she sent me a message and was like
'yea hes amazing..hi im XXX his girlfriend'
OMG!what am i supposed to do ?i dont have money to go to germany and his sister was babysitting th other night and emailed me and was like yea sorry the computer isnt working sorry i havent written we moved into a new house so its going to be a while before we have internet the only reason i can is caus eim babysitting'.they dont have a phone either yet cause they got there a month ago.we are so in love and i think maybe hes trying to compensate for our distance.we have 2 kids help!
2007-02-26 12:32:48 · 5 answers · asked by Hallie L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
there is no way i can get a divorce from him i love him and we have been together since i was 18 and he was 20 its only been 3 years but being married young made us really close.
i was also thinking that maybe shes just in denial.
and he is telling her that he has a good life.
i dont htink that a picture says that they are going out but the comments did say aww you guys are such a cute couple.
i havent gotten a chance to talk with him yet so i cant jump to conclusions but i dont live around any family and so i needed some thoughts.
2007-02-26 13:08:21 · update #1
I would not jump to conclusions yet...maybe this girl is setting him
up.....
copy the picture or save the picture you saw on my space and
when he comes home, calmly, gently, ask him to explain this
picture...
he will probably give you a reasonable explanation, so don't
jump the gun.....if this is his first indecretion, you can forgivehim
for the sake of the children, do so.
that is what's wrong with this country, the first sign of inperfection
in another human being, divorce is the first thing discussed.
please forgive a mistake, but another one then I believe you are
headed for a lot of pain.
Maybe visit with your Priest or your Rabbi for guidance.
2007-02-26 13:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by isageegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't look good, are you sure its your husband? did he invite you along with him at all, did it seem like he was hiding anything. Maybe its an old girlfriend he met up with, I would look into this right away if I were in your shoes, ring his family he was meant to have gone to see. and yes I would definatly turn up there unexpected to see whats going on, take the kiddies with you- he's meant to be a loving dad to those kids, if things are as not as you expected get the hell out of there( punch him in the face first) and make him pay for the tickets.
2007-02-26 12:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be sure she's his "girlfriend"?
Did you tell her "Hi I'm his wife" ?
Wait him, talk to him... If that's his girlfriend, ask your heart, not us here...
Some people continue living together, some divorce.
I can forgive an affair... Depends how close friends you and your husband are...
2007-02-26 12:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by dikam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, your husband is a jerk. Its most probably you guys are going to get a divorce. Sorry.....
those poor kids.
2007-02-26 12:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you better dump his ***. I'm so sorry your husband is such an asshole and is putting you and your babies through that :(
2007-02-26 12:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by lilsunshineray08 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋