How do you know if you are calling too much or not enough?

Question

I've been dating this girl for about 2 weeks and i just acctually dated her last friday. and we had a blast. I called her 2 hrs after our date to see if she got home ok, and i've been talking to her every day sence and i think im talking to her too much. im too afraid to stop talking to her tho cause if i do then shes gonna think im ignroign her. any guys got good adivce on what i should do?

Also, what about myspace msges and texts?

One more thing, im afraid to ask her cause i dont wanna bring it up....and have her think im insecure

Answer 1

limit your calls to once a day if it's that bad, or every other day. and don't call her on the days that you see her. you're gonna get sick of each other if you're constantly in contact.

Answer 2

Skip a day or two, and if she asks, just say you were busy. You have a life of your own and need to establish yourself as a confident man, or she won't respect you. Asking her if you are calling too much will make you seem insecure, so do NOT do that.

Saying too much too soon opens the door for saying the wrong things, stupid things people say when the conversation lulls. Don't let that happen, be in control.

The first few weeks of dating is critical; don't overdo it. Women can get overwhelmed. Don't give too much information to her. Men sometimes make the mistake of charging in, then running out of steam later in the game.

It's like running a marathon-- you have to gradually build. If you sprint all the way you will collapse of exhuastion, and you and this girl will both get tired.

It is early enough in the game to ease down on the calling a bit and be in control. It's about supply and demand.
You have control over your actions, and you can make or break your relationship.
Judge on how happy she is to hear from you; if she seems like she expects you to call and takes it for granted, don't call her that day. Be spontaneous, and politely distant for the first few weeks. Then take it to the next level.



Best of luck.

Answer 3

I would think that you should ask her, she might like the fact that you guys are talking a lot, or she might feel like you smothering her, my best suggestion is for you to take her out for some walking or something similar, and ask her in person, just be open to her answer, and try not to make a big deal about it, almost as if you asking her, "hey what do you think of the movie", nothing serious. Ciao, and good luck.

Answer 4

If she does not show u any signs that you're calling too much than continue doing what u do. Also u could also ask her if she thinks you are calling too much. If she is feeling u, u won't have anything to worry about....she probably enjoy talking to you,most women love for a man to show that he is really interested.

Answer 5

Well I think you need advice from a girl like me. I think you should call her at least once a day and if she doesnt pick up then call her in the next hour. If she doesn't pick up then wait till she calls you bac.

Answer 6

dont call her dat much at least try callin her 3 times a day cuz after u talk alot in one day u dont have nutin else 2 talk bout

Answer 7

Stop calling for a day,maybe two.When she calls you to ask what happened,tell her the truth,you felt like you where calling to much,so I'm slowing it down.Then ask if it's OK with her.Just don't lie about it.

Answer 8

well i m a female and i love to talk ova tha phone with my man im sure its cool by her and u should ask her do she thank ur doing to much

Answer 9

control feelings and contact per day for some mental enjoy

Answer 10

if she likes talking to you everyday then great. ask her. ive been with my boyfriend for two years and we talk every night before we go to bed