My bf off two years and I just broke up, we both are 26 he is a virgin and i was his first gf, we had a very serius relatioship, but he is totally scared of having children getting married or even leaving his parents house, he is too swet, too honest,and is not a party boy, but he doesnt consider himself capable to have a family o serius responsabilities. I am from latin america so I dont know if this has something to do with culture. Thanks for your comments.
2007-02-26 12:13:37 · 8 answers · asked by Nata 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he'll never grow up. It's not abot him being a virgin, but him living his life like a little boy at 26. But you broke up anyway so why does it even matter. Good thing you broke up with him because if he doesn't consider himself being capable of taking responcibilities - then he's not capable.
2007-02-26 12:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Other than the leaving the parents house bit and NOT having sex, he sounds a lot like me. I have absolutely NO desire to have children or marry and actually think it is only the evil and/or ignorant that do have kids. I expect only a limited number of intelligent people will understand this.
The not wanting sex thing is however, very strange and I can only think he's:
1. Scared that you will become pregnant.
2. Scared that he won't be able to perform or perform poorly.
3. Scared that his wobbly bits are so small that even the male dwarf humming bird has a larger one.
4. He's the reincarnation of Liberace and is scared to come out.
If you care for him, then you will:
1. Get sterilised and encourage him to do the same.
2. Reassure him he will be fine and if he does get the courage, lie convincingly enough to make him believe he is actually good in bed. If you don't understand the complexity of this last answer, here is the idiot version: Go "ooohh, mmmmm, uuhhh, uuh" a lot.
3. Again, you lie through your teeth here and pretend that it doesn't matter or that it is 'normal' in size and whatever you do, try to refrain from laughing in his face and asking to take photos of it for Ripley's.
4. Get the Hell out of there pronto.
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2007-02-26 20:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Oliver T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! Sweetie you need a real man and what you just described sounds so far from it that I can't even begin to tell you all the things wrong with him! A virginal commitment phobic, momma's boy; sounds like you got the bottom of the barrel there. Keep looking and just consider yourself lucky that things didn't get to the point that it really hurt to end it. You can do better, I'm sure. He doesn't represent the best or even the middle of the road for what American men have to offer.
2007-03-06 20:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too be honest Nata.......one of two things, he is overly religious, or he just be gay..........sorry to say that, but that might be the case........very weird for an american guy that age not to want to have sex, especially after 2 years into a relationship. Any girl that I was serious with, I couldn't wait to get into her pants......haaa!!!
2007-03-06 19:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bill G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like his is gay. And even if he isn't, he's still living with his parents! That is totally childish at his age. You seriously need to let this one go.
2007-02-26 20:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by soo funny girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is not normal in todays society but it is a good thing that he is waiting. people shouldn't ahave such expectations.
2007-03-05 15:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Liv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think its normal at all you have to respect his feelings but what better way of showing his love for you
2007-02-26 20:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by James R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's gay
2007-02-26 20:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋