2007-02-26 12:13:19 · 4 answers · asked by butterfly 23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There are some factors involve first before you make a decisive decision, one is do he miss you? Until you know whether he want to try to reestablish a relationship, it is fruitless to even consider. You shouldn't not try to look for hints and ask a third party to find out how he feels! You must know in your heart if he wants to be with you and only you!
Once that establish, and in his heart he seeks your love, affection, dedication and be a loving father. You must iron out any difference that cause the separation and discuss how to communicate with each other especially when problems arises.
Your son would be very delighted to have his parents together, and he would be more appreciate of the reunion to feel the love in his home. A family that prays together,stays together, but I have one question to address to you. You mention you miss him sometimes, have you thoughts of times when you don't miss him!
God Bless
2007-02-26 13:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love him and he loves you then go for it. However, it all depends on why you guys broke up. I always say to myself that I do not move backwards in life. If you left him there must of been a good reason.
Also, you need to think about your son. I am having problems with my husband but I deal with my situation because of the children. My husband is a great guy but he is not an infectionate person and sometimes I feel like I need love. I also have 4 children by him and there is no way in hell that I am going to raise these children alone and let him have freedom. Good Luck on the decision you make..
2007-02-26 20:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reflect on why you two are seperated. are you friends right now? can you talk out your differences? can you agree to disagree without hitting below the belt with verbal abuse? can you respect each other's independence and still enjoy the dependence of relationships? come to a mutual agreement on parenting skills?
not argue over the direction of the toilet paper on the roller? (smile)
if there's love there, and both of you want to work it out, go for it! just make sure that its love based only, agree to hang in there together...
i wish you the best...
2007-02-26 21:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know... it's easy to miss someone... when you do, remember the reason why you guys split. that might help you out.
Do not go back for the child.
2007-02-26 20:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋