well lets see here. theres this guy who has likes me since the beginning of school [or so his friends say.] he had a couple of girlfriends, and i had a couple of boyfriends, and now we're both single and i think im starting to like him. the thing is, one of his friends [jeremy] is my friend too. he told me [when i asked his opinion] that this guy was only in these other relationships for the sex, and when they wouldnt give it to him he ended it. now see i know jeremy likes me too. the girls he went out with agreed that he was rather pushy when it came to sex, but im not sure if i should believe jeremy or what? i dont want to be in a relaionship ust for sex. but what is your opinion?
2007-02-26 12:08:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should believe your friends, but the best source may be the girls Jer was telling you about. ask them.
oh, and don't believe that guy that said all guys are in it 4 sex. No we're not! That's just a few horney perverts.
hope I could help.
2007-02-26 12:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by King John dragon-slayer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this Jeremy like you too, I wouldn't believe him. Go out with this other guy and just see how it goes, that's about all you can do for now. If he is in it for just the sex, then you will find out sooner or later. Good luck!
2007-02-26 12:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust Jeremy, in fact, don't trust anybody. Guys will believe their lies until they sleep with you, then they start to realize that they just weren't thinking rationally. I'm telling you, I'm a guy and sometimes the urge for sex is so strong that we will believe whatever we have to in order to get it.
2007-02-26 12:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he must have a bad repitation in this area, i'd go out with Jeremy he sounds all right and he must be a decent guy if hes avoiding harm towards you to do with this other guy.
2007-02-26 12:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being friends first.....then slowly start to grow from there. Obviously if he is only in it for the sex, he isn't going to spend too much time on you. So take it slow, and see where it goes.
2007-02-26 12:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by GottaJustBe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Weirdo, grow up. Of course he only wants you for the sex. Are you that blind? As a matter of fact all guys are in it just for the sex, except the pusssy ones.
2007-02-26 12:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Chris from West LA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can really tell if the guy is only in a commitment because of sex. he doesnt really care about what's happening in the relationship or doesnt care about your feelings.. now if u can feel that whenever you are with him.. then that's another story. drop it! what's the point is staying?
2007-02-26 12:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by edzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this jeremy dude is jealous cause he likes you and he wants to be with you.
2007-02-26 12:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try saying NO and just see what happens next.
2007-02-26 12:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋