I need to give him my strength...but how?

Question

Okay, here's the scoop...

My bf and I have been going out for almost over a year now...
He got out of a really bad relationship before me and his ex keeps creeping her way back into the picture, trying to break us up!
I've had just ENOUGH with this biatch and I'm going crazy!

What more does she want from him?! She's slept with guys behind his back, she wouldn't let him talk to other girls, she doesnt want him to be happy, thus leading to me, making him happy, so she hates my guts!

And he dumped her...I came around and "healed him"...talked, shared feelings, all that jazz...

But the story is much much more complex than all that. (Hard to believe I know) But I dont know how to deal!

I love him and he loves me, we're in a wonderful realationship but she needs to LEAVE US ALONE!!!

Answer 1

First of all, you need to have a talk with your boyfriend. Get his feelings on this and get everything out in the open. Make sure that the both of you are as tight as you believe.

Once that happens, the both of you need to make a UNITED stand against this ex. If she's attacking just one or the other, she has an advantage, but going up against the both of you together should give her something to think about.

If that doesn't work, there's always the TRO (temporary restraining order) route. Violate that and she goes to jail. That should show her that you mean business.

She sounds pretty whacked, so be careful in your dealings with her. First things first, circle the wagons and mount your defense together. Good luck to the both of you and I hope that this thing resolves quickly and without harm.