hi. i like this girl a lot but she is with another guy in a long term relationship. She likes me too. We all live in an apartment together. I have a strong feeling towards her. We even kissed when her bf was out of station. Now after he returned she is happy with him and i can not see them being together . their romance makes me jealous and i can not even sleep . somehow i managed to took courage to tell her how i feel. but she says she is with him " i can not do anything" what does this mean? ...
i don know what to do... I like her not because she is hot, i like her bcos she is so nice to spend time with. i want her to be my gf. But i have no idea what to do. im confused ! my only hope is thi s place. Pleeeeease help me people...
Am i a bad guy? trying to get others guy's girl???? i like her a lot..
2007-02-26 11:55:44 · 18 answers · asked by ee2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is always complaining abt their relationship to me. she is not satisfied with their relationship! The guy is not a perfect person. he is somewhat selfish! i like her a lot. i want her to be happy.. I think if she is with me we can make a perfect couple... any ideas please!! what shall i do?
2007-02-26 11:56:01 · update #1
Sometimes there is nothing you can do. I wish I could tell you to continue after her, but by personal experience, I can tell you that it would only hurt you even more.
I suggest you try to forget her, because she will not leave her boyfriend for now, she thinks she is happy with him, and I guess you deserve someone better than that.
And you are not a bad guy for liking someone for what they are, but I am not sure if she really deserves you. You must rethink your situation and balance if the girl is worth your trouble. And what about your friend, is she worth your friendship to this guy? Will she fulfill your expectations once she becomes you girlfriend? Would you fulfill hers?
These are some of the questions you should be answering yourself, before making a hard decision. My suggestion is to move on, and try to find someone who will care for you.
2007-02-26 12:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by Maria Isabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing to remember is if he or she cheats on there partner with you she or he will cheat on you. Do you want that? Leave this woman alone she is not good for anyone and the man that is with her is gong to find out the hard way. I'm not trying to be mean I have seen women and men like this when their spouse or partner is away they play and it happens more often than not. Look at her in a different light and maybe you can see through her and her problems. Go some where else, move if possible.
2007-02-26 20:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by rainingonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now the best thing you can do is continue being her friend, nothing more. If she has been with this guy for a while there is a reason why she is still hanging around. Don't try to come between it, if she wants it to be over she will find a way. Right now I suggest u to try to date someone else, there are plenty of single girls looking for a man. If it is meant for her to be your girl it will happen in due time.
2007-02-26 20:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your treading on very thin ice hear! My guessing is if she split from this long term thing as iv found before she will need time to go out and enjoy her self and im doubting jump straight into another relationship?I have recently had this but not the position your in........we spent a month together but it was way to soon so i have backed off if she likes me she will come back to me if not it wasnt meant to be i think you might need to do the same thing
I think it would be a good diea to get another place as well.... you could tell her before you leave your there for her if she needs to escape there?who knows she may follow suit and join you. but being in the same place watching them together must be just torture get out before you makes your self ill my friend!!
2007-02-26 20:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sean C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. You need to understand that she is in a serious relationship and whatever she did, she did out of desperation. It is not fair for you to butt in her life if she told you she is not interested any more. If you do something dramatic like confront her in front of her b/f or vis versa, you will all end up miserable and you won't even get her. Let it/her go. If she wants you she will go to you.
2007-02-26 20:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by kv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad Mormonism only lets the guy have two wives and not the other way around. I think she wants the both of you, or else she's enjoying all the attention. Or both. Or she wants a 3 way.
2007-02-26 20:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by ANSWER MY QUESTION!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is confused and probably does not like being alone, and keeps you around for when he is gone. She gives you false hope, in for you to stay. Your the back up plan, but to into consideration that if she cant be honest with her boyfriend, why would she be honest with you. Walk away and move out, if she wanted you, she would leave him.
2007-02-26 20:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this.. but your just that guy that she'll play around with and cheat on her BF with, but she wont take you seriously and respect you....she'll just use you.
Get over her and find yourself a nice girl who will want you...
are you military?? If y ou are, there is a term for girls like her...WesPac Widow
BEWARE.
2007-02-26 20:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by mzsunrize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you cannot be her lil toy to pull out when her boyfriend iz away. Tell her she needs to choose between her boyfriend and you an dhopefully she'll choose you. If she doesn't move on with your life and wish them the best of luck!
2007-02-26 20:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by ESPN 01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if she meant to leave the guy she would be free already. She is not gonna leave him and you should stop wasting your time and go find you someone of your own. Let her alone and move on
2007-02-26 20:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋