he's dating my BFF to get me jealous. (we used to be together)should i tell her that he's using her? But then he'll get mad at me and so will my BFF cuz she will think i want him only for myself.....should i tell her?
2007-02-26 11:31:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are jealous because you really want him.
2007-02-26 11:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is no proof that he's dating her to make you jealous, could be an assumption, I don't know. But, I think the best way is to ignore the fact that they're together, if you are right that it's to make you jealous, then the best defense is to not give it your attention. Stay good friends with your BFF though and talk to her often just like you always have done, don't let your guyfriend bother you, just act like you normally would and try to hang out with them seperate from one another to keep the reality of them dating out of your mind. But, if they are dating out of true interest in each other, then you shouldn't get in the way of that and you should wish them the best. But if it becomes too much to handle, just tell them how you feel and that you don't want to lose the friendships that you valued, wait, lol, just tell that to the girl... might be a little wierd you say that to your guy friend, lol
2007-02-26 11:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do u know he's really dating ur BFF just to get u jealous. That's the part I can't understand. Think about that and if u see that he really is trying to make u jealous, then u ignore it and make sure that it doesn't get to u. Cause if u say something to ur BFF then yes she will get mad and u never know maybe she really likes the guy no matter what.
That's all I got on that subject. =)
2007-02-26 11:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Hmmm Andrew ♣ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wonder if your BFF is truly your BFF is she's dating your ex - BFFs normally wouldn't even think about doing something like that.
2007-02-26 11:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by MJ MCK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell u my experience my best friend male i were in love but we were only best friends when he decided to flirt with my cousin to make me jealous she in turn flirted back yes my cousin anyways i knew she was using him to get back at me since she knew i love him i knew it so i did tell him about it he had a hard time with it but he realised it was true when we found out she was secretly married and was stringing him along.she left making it seem like it was all his fault.he was upset but he realised we were in love.so my point is tell the truth,sooner or later if being used they will break up so ull have clear conscience and u truly love the person so u told the truth.trust me ive been there and its very hard to go through.all these people who say ur jealous they have no idea what its like ive gone through what ur going through now its like someone twists a knife into the heart and keeps turning it.its hurts bad.i hope things get cleared up and the one u love sees u love that person for real tell the truth clear ur conscience leave the rest upto them if using they will break up sooner or later.that person is lucky to have someone like u love that person.please if u tell the truth and if they break up after sometime over being used dont bring it up with the one u love let it go and be best friends and in love as before that will show this person u truly love them and ur their love.email me if u want to talk about it im here ive gone through it so i know how it feels and u can talk to me
2007-02-26 11:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate on your bff! If she fairly is your perfect buddy she would be in a position to tell you her thoughts. She could be jealous of you, yet in the tip if she is a genuine buddy you wont combat over a guy. All my acquaintances promise we wont permit a guy ever come between us. because of the fact thats in simple terms ridiculous. stick to your heart lady!
2016-10-02 01:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you don't care and don't make it an issue. If your ex is really dating your friend just to make you jealous then he'll be looking for that reaction from you. Don't give it to him and it'll backfire guaranteed.
2007-02-26 11:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by DI$CO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOhhh hold on right there and listen up
Look dont try this dont tell her it will bring problems try to make believe you dont care about what they are doing so maybe he wil get tired and dump her. Friends can really be tough to associate with trust me so just let it go because she will find out
2007-02-26 11:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by ~~~baby boo 4 life~~~~~~~~a.k.a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most definately as long as your sure its true. but you should be able to prove it to her...you could do a cool spy movie thing...like talk to him with a tape recorder saying like "if i wanted to go out with u again would u dump (whatever ur BFFs name is) and if he says yeah then show her the tape and if not then just leave them alone.
(obviousely dont let him see the tape recorder...)
GOOD LUCK!!!! i hope things go well for you
2007-02-26 11:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mariya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he is indeed doing it to get you jealous, then it's working. So how does it feel to be a puppet?
Leave them alone. If he's a jerk, she will find out all on her own.
2007-02-26 11:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by lanibear55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but just warn her how he is, and leave them alone if you start worrying and tell her, she will tell your exboyfriend ( now her boyfriend ) and that is his plan to make you jealous so if you pretend that you don't care his plan will backfire, and he will have to break up with her as soon as possible.
good luck and calm down go get yourself a boyfriend too and make him jealous
2007-02-26 11:38:10 · answer #11 · answered by Da 1 N only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋