I just seem to hate everybody now...?

Question

well, I feel like everybody around me is so immature. School is Just annoying me with the kids there, It would be a very serious topic, like the seal hunt, or Somebody dieing, and then some people would say something childish. im only 12, but Everything and everybody just gets on my nerves. I just want to be left alone. All my friends ask if Im ok, because i dont talk much at lunch and stuff, and i dont really know how to answer....am I ok? is this normal for a grade 6 to feel? My father says that I've gone through a lot, and now having severe headaches for the past 2 years (that are just getting worse and new bad Symptoms are forming) like Arm/Leg sensations, Dissyness(like i'd turn around and then everything would spin), I just feel bored and angry at everybdoy, like nobody understands seriousness of war, and other things. My friends tell me to "chill out" but im...almost worried about me. Seeing food sometimes makes me sick, like, my stomach says noooo. Whats goign on? will i be ok?

Answer 1

Sounds like you might be heading straight toward depression. Best thing to do is eat a healthy diet, exercise regularly, do fun things even if you don't want to, write a journal, talk to a specialist. That sort of thing.

Answer 2

You're getting a lot of answers, some make sense ,some don't, and some you should probably just ignore. If you decide you want to talk to someone like a professional about your situation, please know that lots of people (including very intelligent and good people) go and talk to someone when times are rough - it doesn't mean you're crazy or abnormal. And if it's depression or anxiety - neither mean you're crazy either - just that maybe you're stuck in a difficult time and could use some help getting out of it. Just as life has probably changed much for you in the past few years (remember 2 years ago - you were only 10, and the world probably looked a little different), life will keep changing and looking different. Some times will be really great and you'll be on top of the world. Other times will be very difficult. But there will always be change - that's what keeps life interesting. Those annoying kids at school are also growing and changing - I bet in a couple years they will seem a little more interesting. Best wishes.

Answer 3

You're growing up, that's all it is - people need to give you your space. But maybe you should get the dizziness checked out by the doctor, just to make sure everything is ok. If a lot of your friends are boys, you will find yourself at a different level to them at this point in your life since girls mature so much quicker than boys. Try not to let the world get to you too much, you're still young and you should try and enjoy this carefree time as much as possible. It's nice to see kids worried about the seriousness of war though, it is wrong and you should try and keep this independent thinking alive - keep thinking outside the box. Don't be angry though, give yourself a weekend and do things which you want to do - try writing a diary and letting everything out, or find yourself another creative outlet. Whatever you choose, Good Luck. X

Answer 4

You are at the age where the hormones begin to flow and cause a lot of strange feelings. Mood swings, headaches, and things that didn't bother you before now bother you a lot. However, you have a lot of physical symptoms as well as emotional swings going on and it would be very advisable for you to have a good check up at your doctor's. That way you could know for sure if it's your hormones or if there's something else going on that needs attention. I notice a lot of signs that you're growing up , possibly ahead of most of the kids in your class. If so, it will irritate you when they still act so childish. But please, get your parents to make an appointment for you to have a check up. If the doctor says it's not anything to be concerned about, that should help your stress level drop.

Answer 5

Hi. Listen, you may be feeling what a lot of people do your age-but it sounds a bit like you may be depressed. If you are covered under insurance, see if your parent will make an appointment for you to talk to a therapist. If you want privacy and don't want to ask your parent, ask your school counselor where you can find a therapist to talk to. Usually the guidance counselors are not trainded for counseling(unless they have different degrees), but most schools have a resource center or a school psychologist. Please get some help so that you can get through your teen years as happy as possible. I made the mistake of not getting help at that age. It is important to you and your future-as well as the present. God Bless

Answer 6

Sounds as though you are a highly intellegent, mature and always thinking type of young person, dont worry I'm sure this will all stand you in good stead in later life as you grow, sure you will be okay, There are groups out there for teenagers that are going through all kinda stuff, and you may find that you are not the only one with all these types of feelings and emotions. Also may be worthwhile to see your GP, to find out about these groups that may be in your area and to discuss the physical problems that you are having, although they could be linked to a bit of amxiety, and talking to people that you may meet in counselling or other support groups may help these symptoms also. Think you sound great !, thoughtfull and caring, chin up and have as much fun as you can, get out there and do stuff that you enjoy, Go forth dude young dude !.

Answer 7

Its all about growing up. I suppose you are at the age where you are really starting to learn and understand what the world is all about. Its all part of maturity.
And everybody matures at different rates.
You say you are quite dissilussioned iwth school and other are being childish, just shows that perhaps you are maturing quicker than they are.

But don't worry it will get better in the future.

I would add though, about your headaches, dizzyness etc and the sight of food making you feel queasy, you may want to get a check up from your doctor. It could be nothing but again, it could be something wrong with you, probably nothing serious but better to be safe than sorry. Speak to your mum or dad about getting a doctors appointment and also try speaking to them about any other anxieties you have about anything.

Anyway hope it all works out for you long term :)

Answer 8

It sounds as though you are suffering from anxiety and perhaps some depression. It is normal to care about all the bad stuff in the world but it is not normal to fixate on it all the time nor is it healthy for you. We need to look at the serious things in life, but we also need to laugh etc. Granted we shouldn't laugh at serious subjects...some of your peers may be immature or it may be that it's the only way they know how to cope with serious stuff. There is also peer pressure , if one laughs then others do...but deep down I'm sure what they have heard in class sinks in and does make them feel sad.

I would strongly recommend you see your doctor and talk to him or her about your feelings and the way you view the world.

Hope that helps.

Answer 9

This happens to alot of people your age as they grow up. They start doubting serious matters in the world, weither people care etc. Your obviously growing up mentally alto quicker than your fellow friends, but don't worry they'll soon catch up. Eat 3 good meals a day and nibble on fruit & veg. Take up a hobby outside of the house, go to a club or something. There you'll meet people who are more mind like as yourself, and you'll feel more comfortable and understood. Try getting a pet if your allowed, have more responsbility, and love and care for another animal.

You're not abnormal. Your unique. You are you, take pride in yourself and hold your head up high.

Answer 10

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Answer 11

makes me think of a nursinghome situation with a resident that wanted flowers saying, "don't anyone die around here any more?"
you seem to have matured fast. That's good, just don't go too fast as you still need friends too.
Try not to let things bother you. Some times people make jokes cause they can't deal with the pain of the truth. some times it's plain immaturity, some times they are just cruel.