My friend hooked up with this guy and I met this guy and I hooked up with him too (I know... stupid, you don't have to tell me), then he liked me. He called me all the time and told my friends he was going to ask me out. I saw him again later and hooked up with him again. Then we were all supposed to hang out and I couldn't so I never went but that guy hooked up with my friend that he hooked up with before and was saying all this stuff to her that he doesn't like me anymore and all this stuff. Then he went on vacation, so I can't talk to him and I havent since. Today I found out a different friend had told him ALL this stuff like how I liked him.
Do you think that could have anything to do with it?
What would you do?
I never told anyone I liked him.. but I did/do. Would you admitte it or no?
Yo_just_cuz@yahoo
.com
2007-02-26 10:49:20 · 7 answers · asked by I love you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from the way you explained your situation, it sounds like you're still pretty young. despite this fact, it sounds like you've got a pretty good head on your shoulders. you realize that you made a mistake "hooking up" with someone that your friend hooked up with. mistakes are ok to make...as long as we learn from them. my advice, take advantage of the fact that you haven't spoken to the guy in awhile...leave the situation alone and move on. this could've been a lot messier than it is, and you're very lucky that it isn't. if you want to maintain lasting, meaningful friendships, try to remember to not cross the "bad friend" line. =)
2007-02-26 11:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by desireme112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obivously the guy that u hooked up with is a player, and u and other girls fell for it, he probably told u guys all the same things so it isnt wrong to come clean about it since u hooked up with him when ur frine didd too and it was wrong. and im sure ur friends now know what a jerk he has been. good luck
2007-02-26 19:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else...good thing you haven't been in this relationship long enough for it to be hard to leave...SO GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN!....he don't seem like the kind of guy that you should let yourself fall in love with...trust me theres better out there then one who's going to go behind your back with another girl...it obviously isn't starting out very well, so that has to tell you something!
2007-02-26 18:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by RachelLeAnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be but don't jump to any conclusion until you get to talk to him again. what I don't understand if you didn't tell anyone you like him then how did this friend know. If he brings it up tell him the truth. honesty is the best. good luck.
2007-02-26 18:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think it does i think hes just being a guy and trying to get laid as much and will say whatever to get some. telling you he likes and his friends so that u can get awed. but then turning around n telling them he doesnt like u so he can get her.
2007-02-26 18:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him ASAP. If he's worth anything, someone will swipe him before you stake your claim, so to speak.
2007-02-26 18:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Armchair_Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find a new interest. He doesnt sound too promising.
2007-02-26 18:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋