so there is this guy who happens to be one of my best friends.we have everything in common.i have liked him for about seven months but i am to scared to tell him.i guess because i dont want it to mess up our friendship if i tell him and he doesnt like me back.people tell us all the time to go out and he really doesnt object to it but i am still not sure how he feels......so how can i tell him how i feel without it being to weird afterward.......help me plz...
2007-02-26 10:44:36 · 10 answers · asked by Tiffani. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't beat around the bush.. just go for it.
2007-02-26 10:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by jacqueline. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I spent far too much time when I was younger WORRYING about what I was going to say, how I woud say it, etc.
Experience has taught me that pick an appropriate time (not when you have 15 seconds left before you have to get to class), and just say what you are thinking. Something like "I really love being your friend and was wondering if you would be interested in taking our friendship to a different level?" or "I am beginning to like you as more than a friend. Are you feeling the same?"
A direct question should not ruin a friendship. Even if he answers that he isn't interested. I would just say "I'm disappointed but I am glad to have you as such a great friend."
Good luck! (trust me, actually asking this won't be as painful as thinking about doing it is!)
2007-03-06 18:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Just Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how u feel in a place where there is little or no people around. Start out by telling him how u feel and ask him if he can tell you how he feels about you. I hope the best for you. Good Luck!
~Donna~
2007-02-26 18:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his eyes shimmer and he looks at you with a lot of care, he might like you. Go in front of another boy and compliment him, and flirt a little, see his reaction..iriitated, probably because he was hanging out with you, an dyou left him in the dust..If he's jealous, then of course he does..It's all about his actions and how he acts around you, also..Try asking som of his guy-friends.
2007-02-26 18:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have recently told my friend that I like him, and he said he saw me as a friend and things were weird afterword, but it's okay now, do it, the worse thing that can happen wil be you guys will stay friends only but it's okay...i had to learn to accept the fact that he didn't feel the same and it made me angry and sad and broke my little heart but i'm getting over it and now im just happy he's in my life
2007-03-06 16:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "You know, I really enjoy being friends with you. I don't want to mess that up, but if you don't kiss me right now, I'll never know if there's more."
2007-02-26 18:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okey..regarding to your problem i think he like you so.He2.I'm a guy, and i know what i feel and what the girl feel.i'm a special guy.if he go out with you,i think he also like you.If not why he went out with you?maybe you a girl and shame to express your feeling but try to tell him..it is the better way.Try to win his heart..!!!From me..best of luck..!!
2007-02-26 18:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by asano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... to explain what to do : u r A: and he is B:
A : i think i'm going crazy
B: y?
A: i think i'm in love with u .
(now, if he says "yeah u r crazy" that means he's not interested. if he says "i love you too." then u've got urself a new bf.)
CONGRATS!!!!
2007-02-26 18:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go somewhere u two usualy go together, like to the pool, or up on a mountain or something. then just tell him. dont beg for him to like u back. just accept wat he says.. and if he says that he does like u.. then great!
2007-02-26 18:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by Lyzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him close your eyes and ask him
2007-02-26 18:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by caleb m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋