hi. i like this girl a lot but she is with another guy in a long term relationship. She likes me too. We all live in an apartment together. I have a strong feeling towards her. We even kissed when her bf was out of station. Now after he returned she is happy with him and i can not see them being together . their romance makes me jealous and i can not even sleep . somehow i managed to took courage to tell her how i feel. but she says she is with him " i can not do anything" what does this mean? ...
i don know what to do... I like her not because she is hot, i like her bcos she is so nice to spend time with. i want her to be my gf. But i have no idea what to do. im confused ! my only hope is thi s place. Pleeeeease help me people...
Am i a bad guy? trying to get others guy's girl???? i like her a lot.
2007-02-26 10:44:24 · 8 answers · asked by ee2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is always complaining abt their relationship to me. she is not satisfied with their relationship! The guy is not a perfect person. he is somewhat selfish! i like her a lot. i want her to be happy.. I think if she is with me we can make a perfect couple... any ideas please!! what shall i do?
2007-02-26 10:47:54 · update #1
If your only hope is this place, you have NO HOPE.
2007-02-26 10:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like a tough spot...especially since you are living with them. My advice would be to move out if you can. Seeing them together is obviously giving you major heartburn and isn't good for you. It sounds like you and this girl are good friends, but if she's telling you that she is going to continue to be in a relationship with this other guy, then you need to back off and let her figure things out for herself. If she asks your opinon on the relationship, give it to her, but don't launch into the fact that you want to be with her and that you will treat her better (even if it is true). You'll only confuse the poor girl even more. Just let her make up her own mind and hopefully she will listen to your opinions and your advice. You are not a bad guy. People can help who they fall in love with---it just happens. However, because you live in the same apartment, the situation is becoming very unhealthy and toxic for you. You should consider moving out for your own peace of mind. Good luck.
2007-02-26 18:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK!!!! WOW!!! For one you don't need to be in the middle of this. Find your on place. Then for another thing...If its a long term realtionship she may feel as if shes tied down. Like she HAS to stay with him not matter what. And maybe when yawl are alone she sees whats she really wants or could have. So move out and give her some space to think. You never know she may want to come along with you.
2007-02-26 18:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may like her a lot but she is committed to someone else and said so after he returned. There are many many girls out there and you can't torture yourself with sleepless nights over someone who is taken. You might want to get out of that apartment if you live with them. See other girls just for the hell of it and see if one of the ones that crosses your path interests you the way this one does. But please please whatever you do, do not do anything else physically with her. Its not only disrespecting her by disregarding the fact that she has a boyfriend, but its a form of disrespect that you show for yourself to try and take something that belongs to someone else...its like saying to yourself that you're not good enough to have someone like her yourself cause you settle for liking her when you know she can't be yours. Please just be regular friends with her and don't let yourself get jealous...she's not a posession...she's not yours or his really, but no need to feel like you're missing out on anything. Find another girl and don't be a cheater unless you really want to be cheated on in the future....what goes around comes around.
2007-02-26 18:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not a bad guy. But maybe she doesn't see anything wrong with her other relationship, so to her she has no reason to end that one. But, she still likes you too. It would be a risk for her to end what she has, when she can test the waters with you like this. maybe that's what she is doing?
2007-02-26 18:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by misseasygoing 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is not healthy. u should move out cuz she is not going to leave her bf for u. if she says she can't leave him then u should get out of the aparment. this is nothing but trouble, besides u don't want a girl who cheats on her bf.
2007-02-26 18:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by david w 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want her to be happy then wait on her to come to you let her find out for herslf what a *** this guyy is n no ur not a bad guy you just trina follow your heart
2007-02-26 18:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by babyboom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's not for you mate...let her go from your feelings...
2007-02-26 20:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋