my boyfriend just brok up with me over email, i am so mad at him and embarest to because i kissed him yesterday. he told me he dosen't want a relationship now because he dosen't want another thing anoying him. what do i do i am so mad. i want to make it show how much he hurt me and imbarest me since my friends saw the email. how do i get back at him and get over him?
2007-02-26 10:39:19 · 20 answers · asked by blah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok u can't get back at him AND get over him. Its generally onoly once you are over someone that you don't feel the need to get back at them. My thoughts, don't do anything. He is obviously immature if he is breaking up with you over email. Just try to occupy your time so you don't think about him a bunch or get down on yourself. Hang out with your friends. Don't be embarassed, everyone at some point or another gets dumped. Just try your best to not talk to him. If you try to get back at him it could blow up in your face which is much more embarassing than just being broken up with.
Hang in there and Good Luck!
2007-02-26 10:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what I did I wrote an email to get closure. In the email I did not yell at the guy I simply stated how I felt about him and how I was upset. I called it leaving like a lady. I hope one day he will look back at the letter I sent to him and he will see what a good thing he missed out. You could get revenge on him by doing something mean in front of people he knows but it's like my mom always told me 2 wrongs don't make a right. I've learned in life boys are not worth all the tears because they come a dime a dozen and when one leaves you it just means it wasn't meant to be and there is someone better out there for you. Good luck!
2007-02-26 18:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even bother with him. He's a coward for doing it through email. He said he doesn't want another thing anoying him? I think he implied right there that you annoy him!?!? He's not worth the time it takes to make a revenge plan. Just leave him and forget about it. Don't worry about what your friends think...they've had their share of guys doing stupid things too I'm sure. Getting over him should be the easiest part. He's immature and not straightforward...what would you want with him anyway?
2007-02-26 18:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big deal, did you think you were going to marry him? Why should you be "imbarest" now you are free to flirt with that some other hot looking guy. Just act like he is the one that is "anoying" and flip it off like it don't matter. Act like you don't give a darn and I bet he will come running back (but don't take him back).
2007-02-26 18:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry babe, but "Getting back" is not something you do to someone you really care about. You forgive them and hope for the best, so in reality, you answered your own question. You don't really love him, the pain you feel is simply seperation anxiety and it will pass. No sense in trying to get back as it would likely backfire on you or make you look even worse. Cut your losses and find a new guy, if that new guy happens to be one of his old friends, well just be sure that's a coincidence or you may fall pray to "their" master plan.
Think about it.
2007-02-26 18:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you don't let him see how bad he hurt you. Walk around with a smile on your face. And maybe do something different like a new hairstyle or buy some new clothes. To show him you wanted a change. Then maybe flirt with other guys in front of him, let him see you laughing with your friends, OR EVEN walk up to him with a big smile and talk to him. LET HIM SEE YOU that he didn't hurt you. Because most guys want to know they hurt you.
HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT!!!
2007-02-26 18:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what an A$$hole. He's an sissy to break up with you on email to begin with. For a guy who calls female a thing has absolute no respect. if you want to get back at him you can always use stupid pictures of him and post them on line or say S*** to him on myspace with and unknown user, or you can always egg his house with rotten eggs since he is a piece of S*** then he deserve to smell like one too.
2007-02-26 18:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy.
Put him out of your mind and move on.
Life is for living, not for crying or bearing grudges.
He will be more hurt by you not caring than by anything else, it is also the best thing for you.
Good luck honey.
On a separate note, what you doing Saturday?
2007-02-26 18:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write back an email and make sure you friends see it that you're glad he finally broke up with you, since you've been trying to figure out how to tell him you didn't want to see him for weeks and now he's saved you the trouble LOL
2007-02-26 18:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would take the high-road and just let him go. You will get over the hurt feelings soon. You don't need to do anything to him. I'm sure sometime down the road he will regret letting you go and by that time, you will be over him.
2007-02-26 18:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by tinktink20 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋