15 years old with self confidence issues read below?

Question

ok i am a pretty girl but there is one problem with me i have a big forehead. boys usually dont talk to me. i dont know if it is because of my forehead or because of the way that i act. i tend to act uptight because i have low self confidence. but there is this one particular boy that i have my eye on and i found out that he doesn;t have a girlfriend. tommorow my friend will introduce us but i dont know if he will want to get to know me. What should i do as far as self confidence. i am very pretty but i have a big forehead and therfore i have low self esteem. Should i take this oppurtunity with this boy or should i just give up.

Answer 1

having a big forehead doesn't mean anything.
if you're worried about your forehead, get some bangs and cover it up..it'll probably make it look smaller.

and about the guy
just go for it
if you like him, talk to him. maybe he'll look past your "big forehead", as you said, and realize that you are actually a cool person..

good luck

Answer 2

I have some problems like that, but then I realized, people always have more good qualities than bad. If you are very pretty, you shouldn't have self confidence issues just because of your forehead. Think about the features that make you pretty, both in the inside and outside. And for the guy, relax, open up, and talk to him as if you were friends.

Answer 3

What you should do as far as self confidence is simple.
Be pleasant and smile when he looks your way and briefly hold eye contact with him.
He may take the hint or it may just occur to him now how pleasant and approachable you look...
Boys do not care at all about a girls forehead.
Beauty is as beauty does. True beauty comes from within. How you feel shows on your face and a smile and eye contact tells it all.
Your friend will tell him you are shy so maybe she can suggest if he wants he can ask you to talk sometime and get to know you.

It is ok to be slow to talk and a little shy around boys. That is all good. The best relationships move slow.
Everything will be fine....

Answer 4

Be confident tyra banks has a huge forhead and she's a model so dont act as if ur the only one. Have pride, and if you feel like thats not working, try wearing some bangs to cover it up, dont feel bad, make the most out of it say ur pretty and u dont care what other people think, people will like u more because u are u.

Answer 5

Something huge that you (and others your age) will grow to understand as you get older and graduate from high school is this: The perception that OTHER people have of your looks won't matter as much in the future as they do now. Whether you're skinny or fat, beautiful or ugly, etc. etc., is all in the eye of the beholder. So in other words, one person may view you as being so-so, while another will view you as the most beautiful girl they've ever seen.
So in regards to this guy in whom you're interested, let him decide what he wants to do--but don't base your self-esteem on his opinion! My philosophy is, why would you want to be with someone who didn't appreciate you for your true value, anyway?
There will be someone, someday (even if it doesn't happen to be this particular guy), who will think you're more gorgeous than any other girl he's ever laid eyes on. And wouldn't you want that, ultimately? It's worth it to wait for that man, sweetie.
Blessings to you--and even though I haven't met you, I can already tell you're a beautiful person, which is more than can be said for many people (even the ones with "good looks"). :)

Answer 6

Sweetie- you are 15. And dear god- believe me- we all had something we hated about ourselves at that age.

Having vast experience with teen issues (having been one). I'm willing to bet- your forehead doesn't quite reach the levels that it does in your own mind. But you build it up, and then you let that freak you out, and you make up your mind that boys shouldn't want to talk to you because of it.

But please- listen to this- if nothing else. Believe in yourself. You are beautiful. And no matter what flaws you think you have- you are truly gorgeous. That will start to really shine through, when you believe it.

So don't try to cover up your forehead, and wind up looking like a bizaare cartoon sheik or something. Just be you, and if he doesn't go for you- it's because he's a teenage boy.

He doesn't know anything anyway :)

Answer 7

Just remember that guys usually don't notice all of our fatal flaws, such as your big forehead. And whatever you do, don't give up! If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out, but if you don't take the chance you're going to spend the rest of your life wondering if it would've worked between you guys. Trust me, I know this is easier said than done, but just be grateful that your friend is introducing you, so you won't look like a complete idiot no matter what.

Answer 8

There are hair styles that will cover up some of your big forhead....go get a hair cut that has some bangs in the front. Maybe that will take care of your lack of self-esteem! You know you are a pretty girl...maybe you just have the wrong hairstyle!

Answer 9

Don't stress about your forehead. It gives your face character. Without such features we'd all be clones.

When approaching the guy just be yourself. And if relationships are an issue study hard and get into college. It's much easier there.

Answer 10

Don't give up.

In my experience a lot of people are unnecessarily hard on their own appearance (for example I know a lot of women who aren't fat who think they're fat). For the record I can't remember ever looking at a woman and thinking twice about her forehead.

Try to relax and remember that regardless of what you look like, remember that your self worth as a human being is not determined by your appearance.