He went around telling half the people he liked me. And half the people he hated me. He danced with me, slow danced, freak danced, and hugged me. And then he said he would say yes if I asked him out. So I did. He said he cant because of his parents. Then he had his friend ask me out and I knew it wasnt right but I said ok. And then my friend was like "Do you even want to go out with her?" and he said no. Im so depressed because he told everyone he likes me. And asked this girl if he should ask me out. And was telling her how he likes me. I dont know what to do. He led me on. And now I dont know what to do. Part of me cant stop liking him and part of me wants to hate him. I have guys sayin "tay look at yourself, youre beautiful, your blonde hair, legs, smile, brown eyes, your smart, everything!!!!" and I wish I could believe and forget about Ben. But I cant I dont know what to do. PLZ HELP ME!
2007-02-26 10:17:18 · 9 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound very young and sweet. Look, I know that nothing I can say will make you believe that you WILL forget about this guy eventually. I am 24 an I have gone thru 4 break ups in my life. I have forgotten about 2 completely. The other too I still struggle with. But there is only one that still HUNTS my existance. My point is, even when you don't completely forget, you find a way to move on. You find strenght to love yourself, go out, and even date other guys. This boy played with you, he sounds very inmature. Stay away from him for some time. Don't talk to him, don't make any attempts to be his "friend" and don't date other guys to get back at him. If he really likes you, in a couple of months he will realize what he did. You have got to start making yourself important because you are! Starting today, make sure that any guy who likes you knows that you have to be loved, respected, appreciated and valued if not then they can get lost!
2007-02-26 10:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by EV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that the young man is a bit of a player. He is the sort of person who who likes to play with other peoples emotions, believing that he can get whoever he wants just by being affectionate. He likes the chase but once he has caught his prey? He moves on to the next conquest, leaving the girl an emotional wreck and completely confused as to what happened.
I can't tell you to forget him because I know it would be hard to do. What I will suggest is that you find other things that will distract you from the pain you are feeling. It may take a little time, but hopefully, in time, you will get over it. Look on it as a learning experience. Life is full of little bumps that, at the time, seem insurmountable, but later on you will look back and wonder why you let it get to you.
2007-02-26 18:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ibrahim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand the pain you went through. I asked my friend girl Nicoale to a Holy Ball (Neither of us never been to one and she's in a speical ed class) and she said yes. Later on the week I asked what color dress she's going to wear and then she said she can't come. I'm like wait a minute I thought you wanted to go. Ever since (December) she has never spoke nor even look at me. I feel like I'm a ghost, and I betcha your feeling it to like something happen. I too wish I never asked her. I wish I can take the Delorean from Back To The Furture and stop myself from asking her. We coulda still been friends. I'm going through the same thing and I hope you get feel better too.
2007-02-26 18:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously wouldn't make a very good boyfriend if this is what he's doing to try to get you to like him. If he's playing tricks on you (on not just in the teasing, flirting kind of way), then why would he value you in a relationship? He might just be shy and having second thoughts about sharing his emotions so openly, but probably not. I wouldn't gol any further with him. You deserve some one who truly wants to be with you.
2007-02-26 18:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by Verry Berry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in your place i would not worry so much if he likes u or dont. If he does he will be with u no matter what or no matter what the parents say. guys are very complicated they usually dont know what they want and they want someone to beg them all the time dont stress it if he likes u he will look for you good luck.
2007-02-26 18:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by issa r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate he was just playing with you and stringing you along and he'll keep doing that to you if you dont get over him. You deserve way better so... GET OVER HIM! Listen to your friends saying your beautiful and you can do way better cause theyre right.
Move on mate you can do it.
2007-02-26 18:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like he is a jerk...so y would u even wanna go wit him in tha 1st place? You should just forget about him and move on...and yea i no how hard it is but you will feel so much better once its over!
2007-02-26 18:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
freak dancing with a guy you kinda don't know is s1utty.
2007-02-26 18:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is playing games, don't get involved, meet a nice boy not an idiot.
2007-02-26 18:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by david w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋