Ok me and my ex boyfriend broke up a month ago... because he lied to me for the 7 months he was better.. and now he best friends really likes me and i really like him... is it ok to date him??? tell me what yall think.
2007-02-26 10:13:41 · 14 answers · asked by HeatherHottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they already arnt friends anymore.. i forgot that part... because my ex lied to both of us about each other and the best friend didnt likr that
2007-02-26 10:23:20 · update #1
hun dont do it i did that and it was the worst mistake of my life....the best friend tends to turn to the ex for tips even if they are mad at one another.....look in the long run you will only hurt yourself. The ex is an asshole and im glad you left him but the friend could be just as bad you dont know that nor do i but it can only be bad for the 2 of you it will hurt you in the end should you be forced to break up.
2007-02-26 11:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine to date ur exs best friend trust me if it's that big of a deal ur ex would tell u or his friend. Don't let a bad realationship ge in the way of a great new one.
2007-02-26 10:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah....go for it.....don't worry about the ex.....but pay attention to the things you talk about because he may be telling the ex everything. Dint talk about the ex and your life AT ALL!!! Also people tend to hang with people they are like so he might be a liar too. Most guys are anyway
2007-02-26 10:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by placidfury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this same situation. I was with my ex for 6 months, we broke up, and I went out with the guy who was both of our best friend...it ended up that the 2nd guy and i broke up after 4 months together & now we're friends only again...but the 2 guys almost hate one another now. so if you want them to stay friends, i wouldnt date the 2nd boy. trust me, the 1st will get jealous & theyll fight. i was in the same exact situation....wierd.
2007-02-26 10:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by imcold07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy did you break up because of some else? Or did some one break yous up?
if no is your answers to these then you should have no problems dating him.
But make sure you are not going to date his best friend just because you still have feelings for him that will cause bad feelings and make things uncomfortable for all of yous.
2007-02-26 12:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by Adolf R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not with your ex any more then yes. Just remember he is still friends with your ex and it may be a little awkward.
2007-02-26 10:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. An unwritten rule - You never date a best friends ex, or an ex's best friend. It can be lethal
2007-02-26 10:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a bad idea. ur ex will hate his friend. u can try it but there might be some awkward moments.
2007-02-26 10:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by david w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with dating your exboyfriends best friend. as long as he treats you good and you both feel the same way.
2007-02-26 10:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by John Becker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, unless u plan on getting back with ur ex
2007-02-26 10:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋